I caught on husband gambling at work on my son's second birthday. As soon as I caught him he acted like an a$$. What should I do, and how should I tell him how I feel?
2006-10-11 11:16:37 · 8 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we had two vehicles repossessed and almost lost our house because of gambling. no money to pay for anything before
2006-10-11 13:42:42 · update #1
just tell him you and the son were very dissapointed, would have been nice to have him there with you all.....if you want revenge...do the same thing on his bday..just go somewhere nice with your son, and say "oh I'm sorry was it your bday today?"..lol...
2006-10-11 11:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by blondemom133 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After your son has gone to bed, you should schedule a time to discuss this with your husband. When you sit down together, sit across from each other with your knees touching.
"____ I was very surprised to see you gambling. As you probably realize, I have strong feelings on this. I love you very much and would like to understand."
This should bring out how much of a problem this is as well as if you can handle it w/o marriage counseling.
2006-10-11 18:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question is how do u CATCH a grown man doin anything? you're not his mother. there is obviously a lot of deceit goin on in your relationship when your husband has to HIDE and end up CAUGHT just being a guy. are u sayin he spent your son's gift money? i'm not sure u explained very well what the issue is.
2006-10-11 18:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's it, he was gambling. Was he gambling your sonny away. did her try and put the house up for collateral.
if these things haven't happend yet don't get on his case seriously. You should try and understand what it is that he's doing probally participate once or twice and he may start to listen to you more.
2006-10-11 18:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you got 20 bucks that says if he does it again, he's history. Care to take you up on that bet?
2006-10-11 18:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him calmly why he did this and tell him how disappointed you are about it
2006-10-11 18:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that it is completely unacceotable to do that and he is risking so much more than he realizes
2006-10-11 19:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have some choices to make.
2006-10-11 23:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋