I have a female friend that I hang with and talk to from time to time. I also use to date one of her friends. Presently, she is dating one of my friends. Some nights she tells me about him and also me. She complains that he doen't know what to do with her and that him and I are completly different to be friends. How, I on one hand take her to my hood, the studio, movies clubs, around "different type of males". I bring her to places Im use to and she's not. My friend takes her to the park, shopping, and study with her. Also he's not exciting enough for her in the bedroom. She also brings conversations that her friend and she had about me in the bedroom. She heard that it was beyond good, which brings me to this. Shes like my friend but isn't satisfied. She wants to get her satisfaction from me while being with my friend. Should I do it?
2006-10-11 11:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by gilmorexiii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO! Don't do it! Your friendship is worth far more than a girl. There are plenty of other girls out there, especially single ones!
2006-10-11 12:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, no.
It's an insult to be used only for "satisfaction," while someone else gets the rest of the relationship. Nonsense. Insist on the respect of a WHOLE relationship, or NO relationship. Do not demean yourself by being her toy. (Some friend...)
Broaden your horizons, and look beyond that whole scenario. It all sounds like a bogue deal for you. Unload both of those two, and elevate your associations to people with higher values. Find a real friend with HONOR and a real girlfriend with MORALS.
2006-10-11 11:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. That is if you have morals to live by. I understand why you would want to, but are willing to mess up a friendship just for some girl? What you should do, is tell her to leave this guy if he doesn't make her happy. Why does she continue you to date him, when she could have you? Or can she even have you?
2006-10-11 11:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. If you want to keep your friend then yu need to make some boundries with her. Now unless they break up then thats a different story. You can do whatever you to her then:)
2006-10-11 11:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by shaunna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do then you're not a friend, matter of fact just for thinking about doing it you're not much of a friend
If you were a good friend you would go to him and let him know what was going on
2006-10-11 11:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you value more, your friend or the girl? If you stop their relationship now, you're bound to upset your friend. If you break up with the girl eventually, you're left with
Zilch.
2006-10-11 11:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Don't put a chick before your friendship, it sends a message to your other friends and pretty soon you will be all alone!
2006-10-11 11:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Silly ol Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no beacuse you wouldn be being a real friend he will never trust you again i think you should tell him to leave her because she anit good enough for him
2006-10-11 11:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋