am i wrong not to trust him?

Question

i 'm 51 yrs old so is my bf we both have a child togeather that we had when i was 17 ,over the years we both had diffrent lifes ,both got married to diffrent people ,but we are back togeather after 30 years both divorced and living togeather ,but he still suports his ex wife and takes care of her am i wrong to be upset about this.

Answer 1

nope

Answer 2

Not really, since you must of been his 1st, and then 30 years later you get back togeather, U should be his PRIORITY! And he may legally be binding in 2nd relationship, You might just need to talk if he will to let each other know where U 2 stand...

Answer 3

Is she sick or something? Was he ordered to pay her money in a court of law. Just how much support is he giving her? Does she have a job or another way to support herself and last but not least, did he dump her or did she dump him?

Answer 4

if they have children together, then you could understand that that relationship can never be gone.
other than that, i don't think he should be supporting her unless you live in a state where there is alimony.
but my goodness, if you have been together all these years off and on, i would think you would have known this long before now.

Answer 5

ehhhhhhhh your 51 grandma and your not married u have a bf and a child i aint helping u get away olde love.

Answer 6

If he is supporting children he had with her then that's fine, but if he is just supporting her then something has to end. Either your relationship or the one with his ex. Talk it out with him.

Answer 7

It is normal to be a bit upset and jealous but you took the whole package,no? and she is still his wife