my bf and i have been togather for a year.and i just found out he had sex with an ex.i am 15. what should i do?
2006-10-11 10:49:07 · 14 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should dump him and not waste your time
2006-10-11 10:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by guyote 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out he slept with her. Did he tell you or did someone tell you? Anyway which way in all honesty I think you are too young yourself to have sex and to be that seriously involved with somone. To me there is a trust issue now in place if it is something that you get past well good for you but how do you know it won't happen again. Like i said the trust is gone but if this is a relationship that you want I suggest you work on it and find out why it is he went back to her when he has you
2006-10-11 17:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by amb1964 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't make the same mistake. Sex doesn't hold this or any other dude. If they won't communicate and relate, then sex isn't some chemistry superglue.
You can't change what he did, but you can learn alot. Also check out the source - why did this information come to you?
2006-10-11 17:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would calmly talk this out with him, decide if you want to give him another chance or not. Do you think he's worth giving another chance, chance is if he had sex with an ex he only want the physical stuff, I wouldn't want to date him if that is all he wants. If you do give him another chance forgive but DO NOT forget don't let it happen again, don't let him hurt you.
2006-10-11 17:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his sorry ***. Don't let him give you any excuses, try to talk to you about it or anything. If you have to just be a complete ***** to him or tell him you met some one else hell or that you realized he is not your type. Whatever you have to do to get him to just accept you don't want to be with you anymore and not come back pleading with you to stay with him....ugh
2006-10-11 17:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by josh/julie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he's serious about your relationship... I think you know what needs to be done... Tell him, Don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out!!!
2006-10-11 17:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his butt and move on. You are too young to be settled down anyway. Show him how it feels. Payback is a #$tch
2006-10-11 17:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by soldierman69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know that you pbly love this guy but he cheated and if you except him back hes gone to take it and run. tell him its over try seeing other boys. I did and its hard becasue i think of him every day but i think i found somene who respects me and would never cheat
2006-10-11 17:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating him and stop having sex with anyone.. you are way too young.
2006-10-11 17:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if he cheats on you now he will again, it may hurt now but it beats being hurt over and over again, because he will cheat again, and i am sure you are worth much more than that.
2006-10-11 17:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by deirdre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋