for three years now and I'm starting to fall for another guy. I've talked to my boyfriend about this problem atleast 100 times and he still won't change. What should I do????
2006-10-11 10:30:27 · 11 answers · asked by jazzed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Gross! And you have put up with this for 3 years!oral hygiene very important!!
2006-10-11 10:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may be suffering from depression. I think it's just as important for you as it is for him to check out his mental state. Honey, don't sleep on the couch! You deserve a bed just like anyone. The condition of your relationship is very unhealthy. It's time for an ultimatum. He cleans it up and shows you that your opinion and happiness matter, or you have to get out. If you know a guy that makes you feel good, you should spend more time with him. It will help you reconnect with yourself, and with a mentally stable, happy person. Get you current boyfriend to the doctor, and if it's just laziness, get him to the denist.
2006-10-11 10:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have some OCD problems fears of being clean....my friend had that.....you might wanna go get that checked out. If you really love with him stay with him and talk to him about it tell him how it makes you feel dont say you do this you do that....just tell him that people dont being clean and smelling grosses you out and makes you feel unattracted to him and if he doesnt want to try to change then you might have to move on. HOPE THAT HELPS!
2006-10-11 10:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by blondebabyxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you on the couch & he isnt? Why have you wasted so much time?Move on!!Make him leave or you leave.Try spending more time with the new guy & see how it goes,,either way,,loose the boyfriend.You deserve better.
2006-10-11 10:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a selfish slob.Dump him for the sake of your health and sanity.
2006-10-11 10:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stay with filth? put a can of lysol, soap and toothpaste next to the bed.
2006-10-11 10:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you can't take it anymore either get out or put him out. that is extremely nasty and if you don't love him anymore there is no sense in stringing him along or putting yourself through that kind of torture
2006-10-11 10:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Emily F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EEWWWW, leave him. Maybe he's depressed & doesn't have an interest in taking care of himself.
2006-10-11 10:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by pattysez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him - he's a walking bacteria factory!!!
2006-10-11 10:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your paying the rent, evict him. if he's paying the rent, you move!
2006-10-11 10:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋