My g/f is in her fourth month of pregancy, is it normal for her to not want to have sex....isn't their suppose to be a "horny" stage in pregnancy?
2006-10-11 10:19:53 · 14 answers · asked by David S 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It is not either normal or abnormal. All woman are different in pregnancy, some become sex crazed and some do not care for it at all.
2006-10-11 10:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal as she is most probably not feeling very sexy and getting use to the hormonal changes, but I still do not think that this is an excuse for neglecting a man., pregnancy is not a disability. She should exercise as that will give her more energy and also make sure that she is taking care of herself physically as that will help her feel sexy. Many women think that because they are pregnant they are no longer sexy and that is not true and will only be true if you believe that.. But be careful with what you say as many women will make the pregnancy also be a reason for being extra sensitive. I am six months pregnant and I make sure that I am also in top shape, pregnant and all, but I have had many friends which act like they need to be on social security disability only because they are pregnant. Sorry, hope you are able to handle it and not need to look elsewhere what you are not getting at home. Women do not tend to understand that..
2006-10-11 10:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different. Just as everyman is... I am 7 months pregnant and have been horny since day one by bf on the otherhand hasnt been... Your g/f is going thru a lot right now. Her hormones are going crazy, she is probably gaining weight somewhere on her body, she maybe feeling the baby move- and that might make her anxious, she is probably worrying about the baby and what sex might do to it, what the future might hold, or even just that the baby is "present" while you are having sex.. Try and be patient with her and show her you still love her even with out the sex. Snuggle with her, tell her you love her, give her massages. But try not to make her feel guilty or like there is something wrong with her if she doesnt want to have sex... more than likey its not you- its just something she is going thru right now and will get past it.
2006-10-11 10:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by princess02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That "Horny" stage is different for everyone. I am getting ready to have my 1st baby on Saturday (I'm getting induced - due 10/16/06) and I did not like having sex at all during this whole pregnancy. I didn't even gain that much weight. All the hormones that are raging in a womans body, all to make a perfect little angel that is in your girlfriends belly, can either make her want it really bad, or not want it AT ALL! I, unfortunately, was in the category of not wanting it at all. Some women don't like to because they have put on weight and really just feel uncomfortable. In my case, I just didn't feel like it. AT ALL! Hopefully, I will change back to my normal self after I have my baby. Don't take it personal. She loves you, she's just probably not in the mood. It's all good.
2006-10-11 10:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With women dont rely on the supposed to be's because all women are differant. My first pregnancy i dint want to have sex the whole 9 months and my second pregnancy i wanted sex everyday...so dont worry. Hopefully you'll get some soon. LOL. Good luck.
2006-10-11 10:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sum12Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe 'horny' stage as you put it is at about 5-7 months along.
2006-10-11 11:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is diffrent between every women some have a sex drive and some dont i am 4 in a half months pregnant and to tell you the truth i dont want to have sex and my husband is exactly like you so yes it is normal but maybe you could try to make her feel pretty and maybe you can try outercourse and maybe that will get her going well good luck hope this helps
2006-10-11 10:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by MS DAHL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how horny would you be if you had someone attached to your stomach while you were haveing sex, go out pick up a kid tape it to you and see if that makes you want sex
Sorry for the smart *** answer, it is the only good example I could come up with
2006-10-11 10:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer Dalpe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I didn't want anything to do with my husband from the point of conception almost. He said that I was loving, but I didn't want any sex. I am a very sexual person but when I was pregnant it just didn't appeal to me from week 2 on.
2006-10-11 10:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by beta_slave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to poke the baby lol
my one friends wife wanted nothing to do with sex while she was pregnant and my other friends wife wanted it like every other day.
2006-10-11 10:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by jbscooby99999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋