ok My husband and i had to move back in with his parents for a few months can anyone tell me how in the world to keep our sex life alive. we have never had this problem before. now its like we dont want to cause we are scared that someone might walk in on us our hear us so what in the world should we do
2006-10-11 10:17:08 · 23 answers · asked by michaelslady95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Boy, have I been where you are!
Just don't get pregnant, because then you and your baby will drive them nuts.
Concentrate your energy on getting the hell out of there! If you have 3 jobs, and he has three jobs-you won't have TIME for sex!
THEN worry about sleep, instead of sex.
But in the meantime-practice SAFE SEX very quietly. Put a thumb latch on your door if you can't lock it. Go to a friend's house and beg them to use their bed. Rent a motel room for an hour. Yes, you can, some places. Check around.
Neck in the country in your car, like you did when you were not living at his parent's house.
Meanwhile, when you are NOT having sex, get acquainted. Cuddle on the couch and figure out how to get out of that house. Your husband and you are both going to feel more alive and more connected if you work together to get your life out of the ditch. Marriage is less about sex and more about connections and working together for common goals.--
Keep your drawers on and get moving!
If they hear you, they will probably think it is cute--especially if they like you. If they don't, they will be worried about YOU being irresponsible and getting knocked up. They won't imagine their baby is the irresponsible one!
2006-10-11 10:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, you and your parents need to set up ground rules so everyone has privacy and is happy,including housework and financial things. Keeping it official is a good thing for everyone. After that- have fun being secretive! That could be part of the turn-on! What do you think all of us parents have to do with kids around- esp. older ones? When the door is shut- you knock! Taking a night away-even in a cheap hotel can be fun and romantic too. Don't be down- its all part of the game and how you play! Have fun!
2006-10-11 10:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try turning on music or turning up the TV. Lock the door or put something behind it (but not too big encase of emergency exit) to insure privacy. Do this every time you go to bed together so its not a big production when you guys are in the mood. It will also get you parents in the habit of leaving you guys alone when you retire to bed. Hope this helps.
2006-10-11 10:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by R L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminds me of a time my husband and I also had to move back in with the parents.
I simply asked my husband, in front of my parents-nicely, "want to come shower with me.?" It took the chill off of the embarrasment and my husband gladly followed.
It was mentioned again (*YEARS LATER), but if you think about it, the parents still need intimate times too! We are now our parents age when we did that, and it's alive. Thank the Lord Jesus, it's alive.
*My mother mentioned to me years later how great it was to see that my husband and I were enjoying one another and not ashamed to respectfully dismiss ourselves.
Not hiding that you enjoy romance, respectfully, will be respected.
2006-10-11 10:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, naughty sex is HOT sex. seriously though, I do feel bad for your position. I think you know what you have to do. Its either wait until no one is home, go park somewhere, or get a hotel room at least once a week just to get away and be alone together. Other than that, looks like you are going to have to be patient.
2006-10-11 10:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bistro 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that! Do you know that a little intrigue makes for a more memorable moment? I think that you and your husband should set aside a time to go to a hotel and live it up. If time or money
2006-10-11 10:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stopping everything I am doing, taking a deep breath, then drinking a nice cold beer.
2016-03-28 05:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to re-live your teenage days.
Do it in the car, wait for them to leave, go rent a motel for the evening. How about sneaking into the basement....garage?
Treehouse? (chuckle -- sorry, couldn't resist that one. Just teasing of course.)
This is what you have to work with, so this is what you have to do.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-11 10:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a lock on your door and turn on some music. the two of you are married and his parents know that. normal married couples have sex. dont worry about it!!
2006-10-11 10:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by dawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's okay I'm married too and i live with my parent cause they need me here and every thing going okay with me it's just in Ur self try to don't feel that they are here in the night and do what ever you want and it well work ,,,,, just try and you well see
2006-10-11 10:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by louy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋