Im married to a military guy and im a stay at home mom. I feel like i have no one to talk to. I love my hubby but he never talks. I feel very lonely and i have no support.
2006-10-11 10:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by chicatabi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Who is tying the piano to your butt? You have made up your mind that you need sympathy, you don't you need to get out and see that there are a ton of other people that are leading desperate lives, Go volunteer in a women's shelter for 1 week and you will count your blessings every day. May be if you brought a little happiness and joy in to the home instead of expecting it to be hand delivered you will feel better, I am not unsympathetic, but you do not need support you need to BE supportive
2006-10-11 10:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also in the military and my wife was the same way. I just got back from Iraq and she seems to be a little better, but still not the same. You can contact Army One Source. They are open 24hrs a day 365 days a year. From inside the US 1-800-464-8107. I understand where you are coming from. If there is anything that i can do to help feel free to send me an email or something and I can give you as much information as you need. Keep your head up and remember that there are people out there to talk to and help you out in your time of need. I dont understand why he doesn't want to talk to you though. I hope the best.
2006-10-11 10:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by soldierman69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your base's Family Services Office. There are all kinds of support they can give you including support groups for other wives and mothers of military personnel. Also, seek some counseling on your own for depression. My mom did exactly what you're talking about for 20 years and raised us three through many deployments, etc. You should also speak to your husband and express this to him in a non-confrontational way. I wish you the absolute best in your marriage and life.
2006-10-11 10:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are far from alone in the military community. There are so many wives that are in the same boat as you are in. Contact you husband's key wife cordniator. They usually have activities in the works for you to help with as well as meet other wives. X-military wife here, granted I never did any of this. Another option would be church.
Good luck.
2006-10-11 10:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Your husband is a situation here. attempt speaking to him. If that would not artwork, bypass see a therapist and get on some meds. i think of they help most of the time. Your husband would not deserve you if he's like this.
2016-11-27 22:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your base Chaplin, I'm sure he will know of support services available. God Bless your husband for defending our country. Things will work out.
2006-10-11 10:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by missourim43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of support groups for women whose husbands are in the military, there are groups online too, im sure myspace.com has some.
2006-10-11 10:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a lot of help out there.. like church groups if your into that.. or womens groups.. u can get some type of marriage counseling together.. there's plenty of help.. u just have to find it.. or if that doesn't work.. i know a really good divorce lawyer in Connecticut
2006-10-11 10:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by TwigEboneS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love and chat and get to know more about you...we are in the same.
2006-10-11 10:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by phone_man_at_work 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Contact me sweety(-;
2006-10-11 10:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋