I worked for his family as a live-in nanny a year ago. I was hired by his wife before I even met him. He blushed when we first met. There was intense chemistry between us. We both knew it was wrong and both tried very hard to resist. We both suffered. His wife, a Harvard graduated, knew there were something wrong yet thought it was cute and somehow even teasing me with three-some joks with her husband while I was around. I guessed she was too proud to be jealous of me. She showed her confidence to the man, however, he took it as an OK, he started flirting with me and saying something inapparated about me while I was around. The wife didn't appear to resent it but started demanding me doing endless houseworks. I got upset with the man for his insensitivity putting me in such awkward situation, so I quit the job without let them know why. He was hurt but got over it, but I couldn't. So I tried to talk to him to make a peace with him. They called the police accused me for harassing him
2006-10-11 10:13:31 · 22 answers · asked by J.M. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The situation was the wife was 8 months pregnant and a 19 months old boy. They both relocated from New York recently. They don't have any friend or relative around. They heired me while the wife's parents visited. I stayed becasue I thought it was my responsibility to take care of them at least till the wife gave birth of the second child.
2006-10-11 11:38:50 · update #1
Plus,I did try to quit and they both bagged me to stay!
2006-10-11 11:56:43 · update #2
Please take this as a "life lesson"; people do make mistakes, and then regret it. It's time to move on; if they're at the point of calling the police, then it's time for you to back off.
The best thing, is to make peace with yourself, and resolve to avoid this kind of situation in the future.
2006-10-11 10:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Joya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tried very hard to resist but you didn't actually leave. That's what you should have done - walked right away from a very unhealthy situation. I am sure his wife knew you were never a threat.
You should put it behind you and have no further contact with you, which is obviously what they both want.
2006-10-11 10:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you must get over it... it doesn't matter anymore what you should have done or said.... it's too late for that... anything you say or try to say is not gonna be taken onboard and it may even be used agains you... and hunny, it's not worthy... it's time to move on and forgive such low characters...
2006-10-11 10:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by emi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its wasnt to much to ask for you didnt do anything wrong at all all you wanted to do is end on a good note and be able to move on with your life they are the stupid ones for calling the police when all you wanted to do was talk. I wish you all the happiness in the world!
2006-10-11 10:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by heres to all the pretty words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They truly want you out of their lives. Give up, you are not ever going to have a peaceful break-up. You not only lost your job, but also lost 2 friends. Not entirely your fault, but you must accept they want nothing more to do with you. It hurts, but you will survive!! Best of luck.
2006-10-11 10:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You overstayed you time in that home, 10 minutes after you were aware that there was chemistry. You were foolish, and now you are paying for it, Leave the family alone. you were never meant to be there
2006-10-11 10:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A strong and secure couple taking advantage of an innocent - poor you
Move on
2006-10-15 01:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep too much to ask, they are nuts not you! You done the right thing and you hurt because you are decent, but made a mistake
2006-10-11 10:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lost soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
incredibly everyone thinks they are going to die whilst a breakup happens. tell her it incredibly is not any longer honest to her to maintain the courting going. you're no longer any further in love and now she would be able to locate somebody who does love her. you will no longer be able to be in a loveless courting because of the fact of her threats, do no longer you opt to he chuffed too? flow on and confer along with her ultimate chum approximately her threats.
2016-12-13 06:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if i am a romantic thats wring...not only a wifes husband but children that you were payed to fall in love with's father.....sorry.......
she had a right to be very angry but you shouldnt have got her scorned or scorned her bc now all she sees is justice, no limits
2006-10-11 11:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋