My husband and I have decided to not tell our friends we are pregnat until after our first doc visit. (Which isn't until the end of Nov) and one of my best girl friends is coming to stay with us this weekend. We always go out when we are together, and living in a small town there isn't much else to do. My husband doesn't understand that girls sometimes "just know" Especially one as close as her! I know that she will know!
2006-10-11 09:38:17 · 8 answers · asked by pretty lady 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
So what's the question?
2006-10-11 09:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm worried about the same thing we aren't telling until Thanksgiving (the end of the first trimester) and this weekend my whole family will be together and I know my sisters are going to suspect something is up and I'm worried I'm going to tell⥠I know what you mean sometimes girls do "just know" Well anyway good luck to us bothâ¥
2006-10-11 09:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's tough to hide that from girlfriends. Try not to be too suspicious, but if she asks, tell her the truth! I'm sure she'd understand if you told her you weren't telling anybody until you guys confirmed things. Girls understand stuff like that too.
2006-10-11 09:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Cara M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, that you should say nothing, but if she approaches the subject then tell her and swear her to secrecy until you make the announcement. She won't know unless you are showing or you hint at it, or have morning sickness right in front of her.
2006-10-11 09:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think maybe you're hoping she'll catch all the hints you're going to throw and piece it together so you can have someone to share this beautiful time with? i dont blame you. do that and tell him she "just knew"...lol.
i know i would. who wants to keep it all inside when you're so happy you're bursting at the seams? especially from your best friend. i shouldnt be telling u to decieve your husband..lol, sorry.
2006-10-11 09:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she asks you, don't answer, just give a smile. then tell her not to breathe a word to your husband that she knows or to anyone else. :) good luck!
2006-10-11 09:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by atruddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see. If she doesn't just "know" then there isn't a problem and you're worrying for nothing.
2006-10-11 09:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by JordanB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, my best friend could tell just by talking to me on the phone after i found out :)
2006-10-11 09:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋