I had a miscarrige in March and was devastated. I have been trying for a baby since and on Sep 10th 06 took my period on 24th Sep 06 i ovulated and on the 29th Sept had a light bleed for day or 2. This did not look like a normal period/implantaton bleeding? I was afraid this ws a normal period.
I would have been due to take perod again on the 8th Oct 06 though it has still not arrived. I have cramps in stomach as if period going to arrive, though hope not. Done preg test 10th Oct 06 though it was negative.
Does anybody have any words of advice. Disheartened by negative home test.
Deperately needing some advice please.
Thanks
2006-10-11 09:29:58 · 14 answers · asked by joanne M 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The same happened to me when i was pregnant with all three of my children. I got period for only 2 days and had cramp the month after but that was it. Month three was nothing.
All i can say is wait for a few days, it sounds like you are getting the cramp which is normal the next period after you become pregnant. Maybe go for a check-up or give it a few days after the period would have ended and then i would say based on my own experiences that you will probably be carrying another miracle.
Best wishes and goos luck.
2006-10-11 09:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by daka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax.. i know it can be hard, i had a miscarriage in august, a week before my wedding, was devastated by it all... i couldn't believe that it could happen to me after having a beautiful daughter already.. now i'm so desperate for another baby i can taste it! but i have to tell myself that it will happen when it ready to.. dont be disheartened by the test, it may be that u took it too soon, try doing another one in a week or so, and do it with the first pee of the morning.. give it time, and relax about the situation...
all the best for u, and i hope you get the result that you want..
2006-10-11 09:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first all of, u should take a deep breathe. I'm sure the stress of all of this is affecting your reproductive hopes. You should say a prayer to GOD, He is the best friend you will ever have through all of this! I don't want to preach religion, that is not what this is about. GOD knows the exact time, day and hour you will conceive. Just put your faith into him and I am telling you sister, you will be so much more at easy and becoming pregnant will become fun again. GOD Bless you, and have HOPE!
2006-10-11 09:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by angel76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, sorry to hear bout ur miscarraiges, there are pregnancy tests, called first response i think, that actually tell u if ur pregnant up to a few days b4 ur due. maybe it would be a good idea to use one of these as if u r pregnant it may be too early for normal tests to pick up on the pregnancy hormone. try not to worry and stress about it as this wont help u, i know its hard but try to stay relaxed. im sure u will get there in the end. good luck
2006-10-11 09:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by LIzrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appt with your GP, it could just be that this little one was a late implanter and the pregnany tests you are using can't pick up such a low hormone level.
Give it a few more days if you want to HPT again and see what happens but I honestly think seeing your doctor is your best bet.
2006-10-11 09:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have insurance, then go to a doctor and they can do a blood test that will certainly tell you the facts.
If not, go to planned parenthood, they too can help tell for certain yes or no. And they can counsel you if you get a result you don't like.
Remember Pregnancies can take time please be patience, it will happen when it will. Stress will not help!
2006-10-11 09:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by crissymm5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please check check out the following excellent website as you need to talk to someone who understands your problem :-
http://www.patient.co.uk/showdoc/23068791/
Its easy to understand and they give information on how to contact
The Miscarriage Association
c/o Clayton Hospital, Northgate, Wakefield, West Yorkshire, WF1 3JS
Tel (Helpline): 01924 200799 Web: www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk
The Miscarriage Association is a national charity which supplies support and information on pregnancy loss. It co-ordinates a network of volunteer telephone contacts and support groups.
PS Men can sympathise too!
2006-10-11 09:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by lifesagambol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so eager to get preg tests ... negative tests multiple times will make your dishearted only...
best way is to wait for at least 10-15 days after missing your period and then get a preg test...
during that time... just pray
best of lluck
2006-10-11 09:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by sighspy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to gog, sweetie. or/and...
o really think you should adopt. there are millions of orphans out there that really really need a home, they would be so grateful to you. im adopted...and it is definitly a gift from god...im in a happy home, and not in an ophanage. adopting is one of the best things you could possibly do. there are many orphans from hurricane katrina, you could and should look into that.
I hope you get to be a mother soon, im sure you will be wonderful!
2006-10-11 10:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by *BoNitA ChIcA* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
been there. i know its heartbreaking but be patient and see your GP regular. we went through this and found that anxiety only confused matters. we relaxed and once we were not really trying it happened, only we had twins. just take care of yourself everything will work out. good luck.
2006-10-11 09:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by dee jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋