I am not sure what to do, what should i do. I beleive being faithful with my boyfrien, but i dont want to hurt my boyfriend.
2006-10-11 09:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by Alyssa S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I really like the other guy and to make matters worse he knows that i like him and likes me back. What should i do???
2006-10-11 09:32:55 · update #1
Make up your mind, then tell the interested parties.
2006-10-11 09:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by mike53153 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you decide, DO NOT EVER, even for a minute, think that you can drop your current boyfriend and then go back to him if it doesn't work out with the other guy. It doesn't work.
80% of a crush is the novelty factor, and so are 99% of the sparks you feel in a new relationship - it's somebody new and different, and this is exciting! But none of that 80% or 99% is actually love or an emotional connection. So many people don't understand that, and that's why folks do things like dump their boyfriends for the next shiny thing that catches their eye. They think that euphoric thrill is "real love", and once it goes away, then obviously they don't love the person anymore and should end it to go find their "real love" somewhere else.
Unless you really have reason to believe that you and your boyfriend aren't working out as a couple, I say stick with him. ESPECIALLY if he's friends with this other guy. If you leave your boyfriend for this other guy, you will totally kill their friendship because he'll think the other guy stole you away (even if it was 100% your choice to leave without any provocation on the other guy's part).
2006-10-11 09:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this same probably my boyfriend is so sweet to me but i had a little thing for sum 1 else...i did not cheat that is something no one deserves...but i was told to stay with my boyfriend so i did and i am glad he is an awesome guy..so i suggest the same..
2006-10-11 09:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by sweety_pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only live once. if there is a guy out there that you like better then go for it. you can only fall in love a certain amount of times, not saying your in love, break up with your boy friend and start some thing with the other guy. it wasnt ment to be.
2006-10-11 09:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by howdy19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur boyfriend knows the boy u have a crush on then it is difficult, but if he doesn't, then let him off lightly and move on to the other boy. let him find out after a month or so
2006-10-11 09:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont lie to him tell him u have a crush on some one else the longer u keep it from him the more it will hurt him
2006-10-11 09:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl_79068 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a dog eat dog world.break it to him gently and move on.by the way does this other person know how you feel and does he like you back?sometimes a bird in hand is ........
2006-10-11 09:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck y not bang both of em, maybe have a threesome
2006-10-11 09:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by mark f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIFE IS TOO SHORT. DO WHAT MAKE YOU HAPPY.
2006-10-11 09:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋