i am engagged to a 19 year old black male. i am a 17 year old white femal. i didnt go out lookin for him it was faite neaither one of us were suppose to be at the highschool that year. but god put us bother there. we met and fell in love we are high school sweet hearts we have been through thick and lots of thick. well my mom has kicked me out of her house. beat me. phsycilly and mentally abused me. jus because i wont stop seeing him cuz he is black. i dont understand she is my mother but the one thing i am so proud of she wanet to harm me in everyway for. she wont have anyting to do wit me hardly. but he has stayed by my side through thick and thin knowing that my mom dis likes him. and all the prolbems she has made fa us. we always come out on top. i am moveing in wit him in 4 1/2 months.i love him and yes i know he loves me. and if you all knew half of it you would see it to. but why is my own mother so eagger to hert me cuz im in love and she dosent like it jus cuz he's black
2006-10-11 09:24:49 · 5 answers · asked by angel~eyez s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I pray that your mother will some day come around. If not, it's her loss. I hope that everything works out in the meantime. Where will you stay until you move in with your boyfriend? Will you be getting married? Please email me, I would like to talk further.
2006-10-11 09:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we have heard from your side what it is like, but I would be interested to hear what your mother says. You say it is because he is black, maybe she would say it is because you do not have an education. You are 17 and can not even write a complete sentence and sure can not spell. I would be scared to death for any of my daughters to be engaged at 17, especially if they could not master basic English. I am willing to bet that if I was to call your mother, that her story would not sound like yours at all. You need to forget about getting married and you need to worry about getting an education. Getting married without and education will just make you a slave to the bread winner... Let me think about this for just a second... If I can get your mom to kick you out and I can get you to marry me and you have no education...hmmm, I think you will do what ever I want when I want, because you have no marketable skills and no place to go back to... Oh, and it is Interracial, not innercial...
2006-10-11 09:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I couldn't get all the way through your question! All the misspellings and bad grammar was giving me a headache.
2006-10-11 09:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Alison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she's more upset that her son is marrying someone who doesn't have a decent grasp on the English language. It's interracial.
2006-10-11 09:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by sugarcarat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know child sound like you guys need DR. Phil.
2006-10-11 09:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by mona75243 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋