Is it possible to move beyond what others feel is best for you and look under every rock until you find what you are happy with? Pertaining to Life, Love, Work, Religion? I know it is....But oppression seems to haunt me...I gotta do what I gotta do.....And I have only myself to blame...I allowed momentary lack of reasoning to cloud my ultimate vision for myself. Accountability is one thing...Brushing the dust from my garments and forgiving trespasses is another...Whew!! Liberation!!
2006-10-11 08:47:13 · 7 answers · asked by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Being negative in anything will keep you from knowing and finding out what exactly you can do and what you can accomplish . Always be positive . what others feel best for you may not be best for you. It is your life your future do what is best for you..
2006-10-11 09:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is reasonable or realistic to expect to ever eliminate all negativity. If that is your goal, you will never be truly happy because you will strive to reach it and never be able to. A goal must be attainable. It would be more reasonable to strive to DECREASE the negativity in your life. Why not enjoy the view while you are on your journey? It sounds like you are on a quest to find what is inside yourself. Wherever you go, there you are. It is a hard lesson to learn, but oh so true.
2006-10-11 08:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to eliminate ALL aspects of negativity from our life. Focus more of your energy on how you choose to react to it, and how you handle it.
Opression haunts you? Visit a Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. UU's believe in the dignity and worht in all human beings. All are welcome regardless of background or faith. UU's don't have a doctrine, creed, or rules. They believe in respect and tolerance for diversity. They encourage questioning and contributing ideas and philosophies. Do a search for "Unitarian Universalist Fellowship". We all want to feel like we belong somewhere, that we will be accepted as we are, and that we will be cared about and appreciated bu others. You will find this amongst UU's.
You will learn that there's no wrong or right way to believe or live. You will learn about the commonalities of all religions and learn about the principles behind all kinds of faiths. You will discover new ideas and be encouraged to contribute your thoughts.
2006-10-11 09:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adlerian theory in Psychology is such that we can change our destiny to be better. Those who were abused when young made life decision that changed their normal paths of growth. Now as adults they do not need that change then made and can accept the proper change and change the future to be better
2006-10-11 08:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by CheryllDianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That only happens when we accept ourselves and love ourselves the way we are. You have to live your life and make your own choices and mistakes. People will always try to judge because of their own insecurities but your focus should remain in living your life.
2006-10-11 08:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by honey27 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I tried; I failed!
It is virtually impossible to eliminate all negativity from ones life.
Stop castigating yourself!
Forgive yourself and live!!!
2006-10-11 08:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by SANCHA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be positive, & you will attract positive energy towards you...
2006-10-11 08:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋