I've been seperated from my wife for 7months now. We are still great friends because we have a daughter together but she lives in Arizona and I live in California. I went on a date recently with a girl that I was friends with before my wife and I met but when my wife and I were together you could say they became friends but not like BEST FRIENDS, you know? On the date we both realized that we weren't going to pursue a relationship because it was a little weird so that was that. Word got back to my soon to be ex wife that I went on the date and she confronted me about it and I explained that nothing happened and nothing was going to happen. She accepted that and we still are best friends. Here's what I don't understand, I was planning to go on a trip to LA with 2 of my friends, one of them being the one I went on a date with. She heard about what my ex said and now she doesn't want to me to go because she's uncomfortable. WTF?! They were never that close. What do you all think?
2006-10-11 08:46:45 · 4 answers · asked by WreckinShop 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all it wasn't my choice to leave the relationship. divorces are expensive and she wanted to set up her residency in Arizona for a year before getting the divorce. when she confronted me about it she wasnt mad at all she just wanted to know.
2006-10-11 09:08:02 · update #1
Why didn't you get a divorce? Seven months is a long time to be separated. Did you and your wife have an agreement not to date others? Are you trying to work out your problems with her? The one you went on a date with probably thinks there was a chance for you to be more than friends despite agreeing not to pursue a relationship. So when she found out about he conversation with your wife, she realized it wasn't going to happen and she was wasting her time.
2006-10-11 08:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm...... you're not even divorced yet, so wtf are you doing dating going on overnight trips with female "friends" ? Maybe you should stop all this messing around with other women and move to Arizona so you can do more than visit your kid a couple of days a month. Sheesh- people don't even wait for the ink on the divorce papers to dry before they're sniffing around for someone else!
2006-10-11 08:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are free to make your own chooses ! But have to live with consequences . We women are crazy !
2006-10-11 08:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way2 complicated bin the friend babe !!! altho not al us ladies care wot others think. i no i dont. xx
2006-10-11 08:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by starbrite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋