i jumped into my relationship fast 'cause i thought this guy really liked me, within 6 months i moved out of my parents and convinced him to move in with me, since that time so much has happened, i got pregnant and he said he would leave if i didn't have an abortion and, i am fairly sure he cheated on me, although i have no proof, he undermined me to his family ext. i know when i met him that he wasnt that smart but i was really insure and thought i could never do any better. On the same note, I love him now, we have been together 3+ year, and living to gether, but tonight he said i Fu**ing hate you (under his breath as he walked away from an argument. I am so confused, plus i am still a student and he works full time, and if i leave him i will have to move back home for $$$ reasons, but my school is an our away from me now, if i move back home it will be 2.. Please give some advice. thanks
2006-10-11 08:46:28 · 5 answers · asked by CHAD W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave him, move back home, and transfer schools.
2006-10-11 08:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go back home. Give yourself a break and him as well. Finish up your school and allow yourself to feel good about yourself again. The two of you will be able to ease the intensity. Right now he resents you for going to school while he has to work.
2006-10-11 20:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Priority number one is to take stock in yourself. Most of the time the easier softer way to go is really the longest way around any situation.
It is going to work out best for all concerned if you do the right thing.
sometimes you have to cut your losses and move on.
2006-10-11 16:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay you will be in a bad way of life do you really want to be in that type of relationship??Find someone who loves you trully and leave transfer schools get out.
2006-10-11 16:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by apples2oo4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do stay in school. you can transfer and maybe the education will help your spelling. Dump the dude!
2006-10-11 16:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋