2006-10-11 08:37:22 · 16 answers · asked by Radtech1996 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's the other way around maybe U married who Ur divorcing!!!!!!!
2006-10-11 08:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change, as they go through life and have experiences, not to mention if they were the person you wanted a divorce from at the beginning of the relationship you wouldnt marry them to begin with. Marriage is a gamble, your rolling the dice crossing your fingers hoping you'll still like that person in 15 years.
2006-10-11 15:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause people change with time, when you marry someone you don't see the bad negative things about them till you live together,so the moment you guys get together you see even the nasty things you wouldn't accept when your dating. By the time a couple head to the court, the other person will be completely different.
2006-10-11 15:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who you married is who you divorce...the thing is when you get married you have alot of expectetion from your partner which is normally for humanbeings but if you don't see what you expected you just automatily get a kindoff shock.....,so what you have to do is either to accept him/her the way their are and lower your expectation or to move on and accept him/her the way their are???marriage is a sacrifice and not many make it.
and mostly when two people get married one is usually ready and the other one is usually not ready..and because their don't like to tell their partner so that their don't heart them they just get married and that's where the problem begin coz the person who is not ready will always be feeling like he/she is forced to do somethings and their cant say.believe me 90% is like this
2006-10-11 16:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in my first marriage, the true person is always there, just well hidden sometimes. After a few years, some get tired of keeping the facade up and finally crack. The true one emerges and says that she never wanted to have children in the first place and never did want...oh, never mind.
2006-10-11 15:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by RJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if he/she was still the same person you married, you would not be divorcing them! Nad you would never marry someone that you could not be with!
2006-10-11 16:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person is the same. You have also changed in ways you may not realize.
The cares of this life, the problems, the trials, etc., etc. change all of us. It's how we deal with all these things that determines the person we are becoming.
2006-10-11 20:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time changes people and sometimes for the worst. Alot of people don't see all of the negative aspects of their partner for many years and sometimes people just show their true colors.
2006-10-11 15:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as the ring goes on the person changes , just like magic !
2006-10-11 15:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because when people get married (now a days), they are only concerned with themselves-They are so worried about what their spouse can do for them, instead of trying to please their spouse.
2006-10-11 15:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋