we went out for 3 yrs he was telling me he loved me as he always had even saying it first then out of the blue broke up and said he didnt love me
2006-10-11 08:34:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh but when i saw him out and he was drunk he said he still loved me but it felt different and we kissed.then when we were sober he said he doesnt love me.
2006-10-11 08:35:23 · update #1
they say that a drunk mind speaks a sober tongue. If when he was drunk and he told you he loved you then he meant it but maybe the relationship was not going the way he planned and he dicided to break up with you. It is very hard to find a man that will actually tell you the truth. love is out there for you and there is always one person for the other. he still loves you trust me he does.
2006-10-11 08:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Those three words are so small, yet they pack a very powerful punch. Saying you love someone when, really, you don't, can be very hurtful. This guy you speak of doesn't care a whit about you. He treats you badly. Kissing you while he's drunk doesn't mean anything; he's drunk! If you have any self-respect, stay away from this one.
2006-10-11 15:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by writer_girl20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry you had to go through this game role of his. NO he does not love you and a real man that knows love will tell you so. I'm afraid he wanted what you had. sex. never fall for his lines again. next time he tells you he loves you please tell him this/ you would not know what love is if it staired you in your face.one day he will wake up and remember those lines especially when you move on and over him. i would not tell someone i loved them for personal gain. feelings are involved in love im sure you know. hes thinking with the wrong head!!!! a friend
2006-10-11 15:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man says many things they don't mean when they are drunk. I would only believe what he says when he is sober.
2006-10-11 15:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never tell someone you love them if the feelings really arn't there. Even if your only trying to be nice to a person, that one little phrase is very powerful!
2006-10-11 15:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.... It's wrong to toy with peoples feelings that way and a waste of the person's time you are lying to. Why would or should someone live a lie? It shows little integrity to be so dishonest.
2006-10-11 15:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by vershellie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO you got me over here dying! The words "I love you" is used in emergency situations like if you catch him cheating or you've found a lead or something. Also, when he's drunk he's liable to say anything. It um doesn't mean he loves you, he just likes having you around.
2006-10-11 15:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I would never tell a personthat I love them if I didn't. There has to be a reason for the others action.
2006-10-11 15:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one person i wish she never told me she loves me. I honestly dont think she did. But i wouldnt tell someone i love them if i didnt.
2006-10-11 15:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by freakydude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and we are complety in love with each other, the him being drunk you have to remember somepeople not all say what they have been thinking about when they are drunk, then they dont what does your heart say if it say go for it and tell him what you think and fell then go for it
2006-10-11 15:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋