How can you change a man and why they don't treat woman right
2006-10-11 08:31:07 · 29 answers · asked by yaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not all of the men are like that,My dad is the best man I have ever seen, and he is just an example that some men are decent. As many would tell you here, not all your fingers are the same.
But answering your question, it is very hard to change a man, you would change for him, but he wouldn't.
I haven't seen it yet. Man usually treat women bad because we women allow them to take us for granted.
2006-10-11 08:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u can not change them there a some stupid as men who treat woman bad i have got hurt by a man
2006-10-11 08:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change a man. Many men treat women very well.
2006-10-11 08:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you need to change the man hes not the man for you... how would you like to be changed? that being said - if you are not happy with him move on
2006-10-11 08:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change anyone, man or woman.
You have to find a relationship where you are close enough to meld without sacrificing too much. Compromise is an essential, but where it shades into self-sacrifice is where things go wrong.
Don't ever expect to change each other. Just accommodate each other.
2006-10-11 08:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by langdonrjones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one person in this world that you can change, and that is YOU. You can't change a man. As to why he doesn't treat women (I assume you mean yourself) right, it is because you allow him to. So put on your big-girl panties and go find somebody who is worth your time!
2006-10-11 08:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by RetroGirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU CANT!!!! THE ONLY THING YOU CAN GIVE A MAN IS A CHOICE..TO EITHER TREAT YOU RIGHT OR GET THE HELL OUT OF THE WAY SO CAN A REAL MAN DO THE JOB.. I DID THAT WITH MY HUSBAND SEVEN YEARS AGO AND I LEFT HIM I LEFT TO PHILLY AND HE WAS IN FLORIDA.. I LET HIM KNOW I CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT YOU AND I WILL... AND SO HE CAME FOR ME I GAVE HIM ONE MORE CHANCE THAT WAS THREE YEARS AGO AND HE IS WONDERFUL BUT HE CHANGE ON HIS OWN,,,I JUST GAVE HIM A CHOICE.. GET IT?? GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-11 08:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno if you can really change a man or if they decide to change on their own. My boyfreind and I have been together for 3 years and when we first got together he was in to the gangs real bad, did and sold drugs, had a bad temper and got into fights,and would leave me for weeks at a time. Now he does none of that. He goes to work and then straight home.I would like to take redit for him changing but I really think it was more him doing it all.
2006-10-11 08:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do so many women attempt this. No you can't. Why don't you try choosing someone who already has the attributes you desire? Do you actually feel a person can be happy if he/she isn't allowed to be himself/herself? If you choose a man who is already what you expect, you will be treated right.
2006-10-11 08:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change anyone. THAT person has to decide to change and do it himself. Bottom line. Can you influence him? Perhaps, but ultimately the decision to treat women better is up to him.
2006-10-11 08:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by mommyofmegaboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋