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i'm bi but i haven't had an experience yet. but that day is coming fast. and i am a little nervous.any suggestions? i really have no idea what i'll do or how i'll react once i'm intimate with a man.

2006-10-11 08:07:10 · 11 answers · asked by game_099 2 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

11 answers

I won't go into detail...minors present, bla bla bla.

However, just that first non-platonic kiss had me reeling, because it was something I had never done before. The exhilaration, I felt, was near to bliss - I was truly lost in joyous emotion. Then (as we got down to business) I experienced the physical for the first time - some of it painful - but the admitting to myself, through action, that I liked being with men was so liberating.

Yes there was awkwardness and not a little laughter at my/our ignorance of what we were doing - but it was wondrous!

My suggestion? Don't expect it to be perfect like in a porn movie but do try to relax and savour whatever you do get up to. Enjoy that nervous energy, too. It will add to the flavour and, once you have been intimate, the release from those first time nerves will only add to your post intimacy contentment.

Just be sure to be SAFE in what you do!

2006-10-11 09:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2 0

It was the most exciting sexual experience I have ever had... relax, and do everything you've always dreamed of, you will not regret it. Be sure that you experience both roles, there is a huge difference between being the male and female roles, personally I prefer to be the female role when I'm with a man.

2006-10-12 02:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by bimale694u 2 · 0 0

pour your emotions into it, don't hold back. you will relax naturally when you do this. take the necessary protections and precaution, there are lots of good tips on the web.

On several occasions, she tried to touch me when i'm not looking but somehow i sense her presence and turn around to look at her. she withdrew her hand every time. It was home time so i gave her two very light and quick brushing kisses on her cheek and on her neck just below her jaw line. She smiled touched my waist and kissed me. After several kisses, we held each other then part company. I have never saw her since and am too scared to contact her. she didn't contact me either. i think she's bicurious, never the less it was a one of a kind encounter.

2006-10-11 10:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i hear ya on this question...i'm just coming to terms that i'm bi as well...never had a experience with a women yet...hope that soemthing will come up soon too...although i know i will be very nervous also...it's just so different...but what i tell myself is...i know what i like...i know my body very well...so that could be a start....but who really knows...it's all so foreign...but i'm sure if it's with someone you are comfortable with...they'll show you the ropes, right?

2006-10-11 09:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0 0

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2016-10-19 05:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

A straight guy started showing me innocently enough pictures of his wife naked. In the pictures he was naked. I was gay and I asked what that was about and he just grinned and said he liked 3 ways. Boom We did it.

2006-10-11 08:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1 0

i first had that experience in an adult bookstore in the video arcade at a gloryhole

2006-10-12 11:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by glorylover 1 · 1 0

well i was feeling this chick up but all i could find was a big ole sausage however it had really nice **** & i think u know the rest

2006-10-11 08:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by woody 5 · 1 2

in a word: breathtaking! can't wait to hear about urs.

2006-10-11 08:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by BryceIsSoNyce 1 · 0 0

wondering if you mean experience with same sex or other sex

2006-10-11 08:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0 0

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