2006-10-11 07:36:36 · 25 answers · asked by BryceIsSoNyce 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i would talk to my friend who was cheating and tell her/him that i know about whats going on and that i thin kthey need to tell the other person what they are doing...if they don't tell them, then yes i think i would feel obligated to tell..of course i would put it nicely to hopefully let them down easily....and yes, if someone knew that the person i'm with is cheating on me i would want them to tell me asap! so that i could confront the person and get to the bottom of it....then i would pick up my boots and walk away and never look back. I've actually done that...only i caught him cheating on me with the town hoar! pretty freaken sad...and when i left...i took everything with me..(we lived together and most of the furniture was mine previously...) left him with a crate to sit on and his clothes...lol teach him a lesson...not really though..because he let the hoar move in with him...lol...glad i got out of that!:)
2006-10-11 09:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell unless I am REALLY close to the friend and have non-desputable EVIDENCE. Even then, psychologically, that friend will always see you as the person that interrupted the relationship, no matter how good your intentions - it's just human nature. Your relationship with your friend may change. But on the other hand - if I were being cheated on, I would want to know if someone was making a "fool" of me and everyone knew except me. There are just too many crazy diseases out there! Good Luck with this one!
2006-10-11 08:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by NONE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would tell my friend, other wise what kind of friend would I be... I would make sure I had proof and if there was a way to let them find out themselves I would try that first. Yes I would want to know If my lover was cheating on me...
2006-10-11 07:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, yes to both! Some people say it's not your business, but if it's your friend then it is your business. And absolutely, I'd wanna know if my g/f was cheating on me, that means things are not the same and she doesn't love me enough, so why be together?
2006-10-11 08:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and yes. The first no is because you only end up being the bad one. The second is yes because if they are cheating they are gone!
2006-10-11 09:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and Yes. If you are cheating there is something wrong in the relationship that needs to be dealt with. Letting it continue is wrong and can be very hurtful to both parties involved.
2006-10-11 07:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by JR 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my love cheats on me, I do not want to know. If he wants to leave me *he* will tell me. If it was a fling, and he still loves me, I am better of not knowing. I would forgive him, anyway.
I would under only very limited circumstances tell someone that their partner is cheating. I mind my own business when it comes to other people's relationships and if I don't know the whole story -- and I can't, since it isn't *my* relationship -- I would keep my mouth shut and leave it to them to sort out their problems themselves.
2006-10-11 07:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chickyn in a Handbasket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i might definitely call out the guy who's dishonest and tell the guy who's being cheated on, i don't care if i'm not being a real buddy, i'm against dishonest. i will shop observing them too to ascertain in the event that they even tutor any guilt or in the event that they alter their physique of recommendations, in the event that they don't that particularly irks me. Then i might tell the guy (who in all possibility does not understand what to do, and remains with the cheater) to offload their booty. i will provide why they should and why it would be extra valuable in the event that they have been single than to be with a dishonest monkey. Yup. Then i might circulate away them on my own, and enable them to handle it themselves later. maximum cancers solar Taurus Moon Leo Mercury Leo Venus
2016-10-19 05:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and yes. If my friend knew that my girlfriend was cheating and I found out they didn't tell me it wouldn't be just my girlfriend I'd dump.
2006-10-11 08:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I would tell the friend. I have told a friend before. And yes, I would want to know. I would not want to be the subject of gossip because of my husband's infidelity.
2006-10-11 07:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋