2006-10-11 07:31:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If he is pulling out, it is for a reason. You really need to talk to him about this, he should know how you are feeling and what you are thinking.
Than again, he also needs to realize that it is possible to get pregnant on pre-***, so if he doesnt want to have a baby, he is not taking any extra precautions on preventing that.
I'm sure once the two of you talk about everything, you will decide the best thing for you two as a couple, individual and of course the possible baby.
Good luck
2006-10-12 06:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by bebegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are ready to raise the child on your own, make sure he is on the same page as you are. If he pulls out that means he doesn't want you to be pregnant yet. Don't rush it . Get married, enjoy each other a couple, then have a baby. As a new mom I can tell you babies are a joy but they are alot of work.
2006-10-11 14:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the two of you discussed having a baby? Maybe he is pulling out because he doesn't want to get you pregnant. (However, you *can* get pregnant from pre-ejaculation) Sounds like you need to talk to him about things.
2006-10-11 14:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by mrstallent5150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with other comments...marriage first is best. But you also want to make sure that he wants a baby as well. Otherwise, he could end up resenting you for stiking him with a child, and if you ever break up, he could avoid paying child support if he can prove that you decieved him.
Just for some insight, look at this article:
http://kristopheranderson24-7.blogspot.com/2006/03/controversial.html
just be fair. if you really love this man, take his desires into consideration. If you want children in the future, make sure he does to...or you may end up very unhappy.
Good luck.
2006-10-11 15:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Laura R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss getting pregnant with him , see how he feels about having a child, and then both of you can go from there. A child needs both parents and it is definitely the best when he or she has both parents in his life. So talk to him about it,it would be good if you both got married first but thats is another thing to discuss and please do it for the rite reasons.
2006-10-11 14:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by MissChin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you focus on making some wedding plans first. There is an order of things for a reason, why not start this motherhood thing off on the right foot. A good mother is an unselfish one, so perhaps the best thing you can give your someday-baby is patience.
2006-10-11 14:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by JennieLouie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always get pregnant from pre-c*m...
hmmm...have you talked to him about wanting a baby? Maybe he wouldn't be pulling out if he knew you wanted a baby...
but then again, I think he is doing the right thing, you should get married and get established with him first.
and is not, then, when he tried to pull out, you push forward from keeping it from coming out...ahahaha...good luck.
2006-10-11 14:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by ShellBellzGee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance does not want a child, then it would be very morally wrong to get pregnant on purpose. Shame on anyone who traps someone into parentood without their consent. It is wrong, don't do it until he is ready.
2006-10-11 14:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get married first. your fiance is doing what he thinks is right, and he probably won't stop. But pullling out is not a form of birth control. Mabey if you get married then he will like the idea of having a kid.
2006-10-11 14:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he is ready. It's the biggest event in your life (having/raising a baby). It's difficult without the support of your partner. Good luck to you.
2006-10-11 14:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by nechannew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋