my boyfriends ex says she is pregnant she due in dec. im not on birth control and we have been together for a year i get pregnant easy i havent got pregnant easy i already have 2 children do you believe its his baby why havent i got pregnant i want his baby he doesnt have babies...we love each other and want one...they were only together like 3 months i know it wasnt very long....help please and please be nice..
2006-10-11 07:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by tesnrut 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You sound a little jealous. Have him get a paternity test at birth to be sure.
2006-10-11 07:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can say it's anyones child. When the baby is born have your boyfriend request a paternity test. If she's on welfare or opens a child support case, the test will be done for free. Then you will know either way. Don't worry about it now. Wait to see if there is anything to worry about. If you have been trying to get pregnant for a year and already have children, maybe the reason is him? Maybe he should go to the doctor and have a sperm count done. It sounds like fertility probllems is not an issue for you. Just a suggestion.
2006-10-11 14:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem in a hurry to be pregnant, just because you got pregnant easy before doesn't always mean it will come easy for you. Good luck and have him take a paternity test when the baby is born.
2006-10-11 14:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sakora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have been together a year and she is due in december.....wouldn't that mean he cheated on you?? And it doesn't matter if he didn't get your pregnant and got her pregnant, it could very well be his. Just because you have two kids doesn't mean your a picture of perfect fertility anymore either. My ex and I tried for 2 years and didn't happen, he got checked, I got checked we were fine. Then I met my now husband and the first time we had sex I got pregnant. Things happen!
2006-10-11 14:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get pregnant with your BF.
You say to be nice but you have to know that you are making yourself look like total trailer trash.
You already have 2 kids from other men, now you want to have another kid with someone you aren't married to that might already have a baby with some other chick?
I don't know how to be nice. Just blunt. You are a walking jerry springer episode. Stop having kids until you find someone to MARRY. then you can think of having more.
2006-10-11 15:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have him be sure it is his baby. a paternity test would clear things up and then let him be a dad. that doesnt mean you cant have his baby also. just be nice and be patient. your time will come. and remember it only takes once to get pregnant. things will work out for all of you i am sure
2006-10-11 14:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes one minute to get pregnant hun
2006-10-11 14:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by monique... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋