is it to early to have sex with my boyriend, whean weve only been going out for 2 weeks?

Question

weve only been going out for 2 weeks, but ive known him for 3 years, and we have very strong felling for each other.

Answer 1

Honestly...deciding when is the right time to have sex with someone truly depends on the two people. If you both feel comfortable with the possibility then you should go for it. You never want to feel pressured into something or obligated! Talk about it with your b/f. If he's comfortable too then the decision can be made from there. Just be careful and protected...you may have known him for 3 years but do you know his sex history? Hope this has helped!

Answer 2

I honestly don't think so. I also knew my boyfriend for years and when we actually told each other about our feelings we couldn't even hold it back. We were doing it before we actually even decided to date. We are still together and have a beautiful son. We are very very very happy. You have to decide this for yourself really. But I do understand the feeling of not being able to control yourself when feelings are that strong. Even if we all said no it's wrong, you would probably still do it right? ;)

Answer 3

You shouldn't be having sex until you are married to the guy. Jesus said that having sex outside of marriage is a sin. Why not save yourself for the honeymoon? Don't rush into it, especially if this guy isn't the one to make a lifetime commitment with. You may find someone else that will make fireworks fly and you will regret not having saved yourself for him. My wife and I never had sex with anyone until we were married and on our honeymoon 28 years ago. We were in our mid-twenties when we were married and have never regretted waiting.

Answer 4

First of all, time has nothing to do with sex! If you love him and you feel comfortable with him, then you should! But then again you have to remember, your probably young cause another female wouldnt have asked; so take into consideration that your young and you have the rest of your life to have sex and fall in love! Be a kid...go hang out with your girls, date around, dont put yourself in a situation where its possible youll get attached and he wont! it almost always happenes!!

Answer 5

I guess it depends on your relationship and how much you value sex. Just keep in mind that sex is only one part of the relationship. If you are worried about society's jugment on you, or even your boyfriend's judgement, than I would say, go with what your first gut response is to the question. Ask youself why you are asking this question. Is it because you are afraid of what society thinks, what your parents think, what your girlfriends think, what you think? If you do decide to have sex please don't question using protection.

Answer 6

I think it is too early, but that is my opnion. Just remember, things can change between you two after having sex. And I have found it hard to be "just friends" if things go south and you have already been intimate.

Answer 7

Yes it is too soon! Get to know each other better first and then if you still like the guy go for it!

Answer 8

I remember one time when I went out with a lady (no she wasn't a hooker) we did it two minutes after I picked her up. The police didn't appreciate our timing though, although they did say that it was fun to watch outside the Wal Mart.......

Answer 9

NO ITS NOT TOO SOON OR MAYBE IT IS BUT THE ONLY PERSON THAT COULD ANSWER THAT QUESTION IS YOU!!! DO YOU FEEL LIKE ITS TOO SOON??? BECAUSE IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH HAVING HAD SEX WITH HIM THEN YOUR FINE.. I HAD SEX WITH MY HUSBAND 2 WEEKS INTO OUR RELATIONSHIP AND WE KNEW EACHOTHER FOR 7 MONTHS AND NOW WE ARE MARRIED AND I'M PREGNANT AND HAPPY... SO THERE IS NOTHING TOO SOON UNLESS YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE

Answer 10

I think that it is way too early. Nowadays, please seem to do what is more comfortable with themselves. If you feel ready and comfortable, go ahead. If not, wait. Don't do anything that you may regret later.