I was wondering how many people out there would choose to marry their spouses all over again if you could go back in time or would you change it ? Why or why not ?
2006-10-11 06:20:58 · 47 answers · asked by misfit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yea I would. I feel if you truly love someone, you are willing to make the sacrifices it takes to make a relationship work. Its not easy, and it takes two. I think the better question would be,- If you could do it all over, what would you have changed about the way your relationship turned out?
Even with the rough times..and every one has them I can't imagine how unfulfilled my life would be without her sharing it with me, Not to mention I wouldn't have my 2 kids, and I wouldn't trade that for anything.
2006-10-11 06:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being that I'm currently separated and will probably get a divorce, I'd have to say no I wouldnt marry him again. If I could go back and change the hands of time, I wouldnt have married him at all. I would never cross a burning bridge twice.
2006-10-11 06:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. But, when taking the important step in a relationship to solidify it with marriage-both individuals need to be completely sure of their feelings. That's the exact reason why people need to pace themselves in relationships. I am a firm believer in maintaining a strong friendship in the midst of the actual partnership! With a friendship, communication just falls into place-communication to me is a glue that can hold together or break apart a relationship! Feelings should grow stronger during the course of it all! By putting all of your cards on the table beforehand could ultimately keep the skeletons from escaping a closet later on down the road. By being honest and upfront about lifestyles, etc...you can avoid negative issues that surface from secrets/lies.
2006-10-11 06:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by PBnJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would marry him again. I think I appreciate him more now than ever. There have been times that I may have answered this differently but those thoughts don't last more than a few minutes in the heat of an argument.
2006-10-11 06:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 26 years. I would most certainly marry my wife again. I love her more today than ever. A relationship is the most rewarding thing in the world. If I could go back in time, the only thing I would do different, is ask her to marry me sooner.
2006-10-11 06:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well yes I would,even though my husband and I have being trough hell and back and I tell you why,we both have done wrongs to each other and hurt each other but everytime it was time for each other to come and rescue each other we would do it for one another no matter what the situation was,once I left my husband got in to a bad relationship and I was being treated wrong and I call my husband and he went from Florida to Philadelphia to get me and brought me home and help me get over a lots of things,and now he needed me to be there for him to help him get custody of the daughter he had with another woman because the little girl is being abused,and I helped him by being there for him and taking care of now three kids including our two beutiful boys... so I guess trough this bad times and storms we always end up together or helping each other anyways, so my answer is yes I would marry him all over again.He is my rock and I am his, nobody's relationship is perfect the sign of love is to always be there for that person no matter how mad or pisted off you are with him or her.
2006-10-11 06:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a flash. Although we are only engaged at present, we will wed next May 20. I would remarry this wonderful lady on a yearly basis if I could. She is truly a soul mate, partner and best friend. There is nothing that we cannot and do not share with each other and our commincation if very open and honest.
2006-10-11 06:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if u should be answering this question....i'm not married. but i am in a long term relationship.
I guess i would. Most ppl like to know what will happen. I guess if u remarried knowing that person, you know them...but if u had time apart to get to find yourself and they gain new knowledge of life without u...things can be exciting again. New experiences will or should make the second marrieage better. Not only do u have knowledge of what happened before...but u also have new beganings.
2006-10-11 06:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by csabrinam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOPE! It was a bad time in my life and thought it was the best thing for me to do. Now I realize it wasnt. He's a great person but I realize now I married him for the wrong reasons. Now we have a 4 year old daughter. Soooo........ I'll be here for a while.
2006-10-11 06:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Stacey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I look at my wife I wish that I could go back in time to a time when I was younger so that I could marry her and spend an even longer life together. I love her soul and the breath that greets me in the morning, the breath of her life.
2006-10-11 06:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋