response him. Than it makes me feel regret. I dont know what to do. Becauese I am just to shy. In other hand I dont want him to think I dont care about his feelings because I want to keep him happy. What to do?
2006-10-11 06:19:22 · 5 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let him know how you really feel, and see what happens. I enjoyed it when my girlfriends would talk dirty to me. If he is your fiancee, don't be shy. Just as long as he doesn't go overboard. Find a private place where you can speak with him on the phone and just relax and have fun. Follow his lead, It is nothing to be ashamed of. If you need practise call me.
2006-10-11 06:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him know. if he just keeps pushing you to do it, evenutally you are going to resent him for it. and that will just hurt you guys in the long run. why dont you try in a letter first? that way you can take as much time as you need until you get it just the way you want. then maybe you'll be more comfortable and be able to slowly move up to "suggestive" phone convos, and eventually to dirty talk. :)
good luck. just dont let him force you to do it. it will never work.
2006-10-11 13:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable in talking about personal stuff such as what you have mentioned...The tell him that you're shy and i'm sure if he loves you the way you think, he should accept it and try and comfort you!
2006-10-11 13:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by saiyuki c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer, get over it. If you want to have a relationship, then you need to get over that shy crap.
2006-10-11 13:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get into the moment, forget about how you think you sound to him, just do it. Don't worry, you won't be shy forever.
2006-10-11 13:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋