i live in a different town than him, he swears on his family he loves me but he dont talk to me for real any more and when i ask him to come see me he always says..... why do you keep asking me that or i dont know.....
2006-10-11 06:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by C...R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Brake it off now.
start dating again. and the result will be the following:
1) if he cares he will come.
2) if he don't he is getting his some where else.
2006-10-11 06:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him, he is not worth your time! He should WANT to spend time with you. If a guy really likes you he will find ways to go and see you!! Once a guy stole his parents car to go see me when I was like 17! I don't recomend anyone try that, just using that as an example. He is in a different town than you anyways and that kind of relationship usually ends up a bad one, because talking on the phone or writing emails or letters isn't the right way to get to know someone. Being around them a lot is the way to get to know who they really are! That is how people find out if they really love someone or if they just love Love. Because lots of times (lots of girls have this problem) you think someone is great, then later on when you start spending lots of time together you realize that the person who was so great and nice on the phone or in a letter is rude, annoying, and sometimes mean. If you think he is lieing to you about something (you didn't say what) he probably is.
2006-10-11 06:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by sunnychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am home sick from work second day in a row. Why? Because the man I spent 10 yrs with left me for another. He lied he snuck behind my back.he cheated and is living with her...I have made myself sick over this,, but I am a survivor... Some warning signs now that its hindsight.for me.... easily quarrelled with me. no interest in intimacy... fell asleep as soon as he came home..did not want to communicate...had no interest in planning future or even a dinner date... stopped eating the meals I prepared,,, made excuses why he had to go into work early...did not want to spend time with me...If any one or two of these signs is a yes answer for you. Time for a wake up call. I trusted mine.. I was in for a real heartbreak and didnt even recognize it.
You need to turn things around now for your own hearts sake. It may be a hard thing to do but...Let him know that you have other plans now with other people and you will no longer tolerate or have the time for a person who has no time for you..That may be his wakeup call if he really cares.. You deserve to be treated better than that, especially if you have given your heart to him...Dont let him hurt you like I have been hurt.. If he can do this now what will he be like a year or two down the road... good luck and GBU
2006-10-11 06:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by asuare1950 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies_eyes.php
2006-10-11 06:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt want to see you, he is up to something. does he only want to see you at 2:00 am? think about it
2006-10-11 06:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have that gut feeling he's lying then he's lying
2006-10-11 06:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE CAN'T LOOK YOU IN THE EYES.
2006-10-11 06:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋