2006-10-11 06:01:27 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHEN I LEFT MY EX-HUSBAND MY REASONS WERE BECAUSE HE WAS ON DRUGS, AND DRANK ALL THE TIME AND WAS A CHEATING WHORE DON'T FORGET HE WAS A LIAR!
HE WAS PHYSICALLY , MENTALLY, SEXUALLY ,AND VERBALLY ABUSIVE TO ME! I FELL OUT OF LOVE WITH THE JERK BECAUSE I WASN'T GOING TO TAKE HIS S&*t ANY MORE! I THINK THOSE ARE GOOD REASONS! HAVE A NICE DAY!
2006-10-11 06:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To leave a lover... because the sex has gone bad, or you'd don't satisfy each other anymore, or are not attracted to each other... there are loads of reasons, but they all revolve around sex! If you're taking about leaving a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner, that's a different matter!
2006-10-11 06:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm ..
You already have many answers.
The reasons ? you can find many
Just refer the following:
1. A PUSH FOR QUICK INVOLVEMENT: Comes on very strong, claiming, "I've never felt loved like this by anyone." An abuser pressures the woman for an exclusive commitment almost immediately.
2. JEALOUSY: excessively possessive; calls constantly or visits unexpectedly; prevents you from going to work because "you might meet someone"; checks the mileage on your car.
3. CONTROLLING: Interrogates you intensely (especially if you're late) about whom you talked to, and where you were; keeps all the money; insists you ask permission to go anywhere or do anything.
4. UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS: Expects you to be the perfect woman and meet his every need.
5. ISOLATION: Tries to cut you off from family and friends; accuses people who are your supporters of "causing trouble." The abuser may deprive you of a phone or car or try to prevent you from holding a job.
6. BLAMES OTHERS FOR PROBLEMS AND MISTAKES: The boss, you -- it's always someone else's fault if anything goes wrong.
7. MAKES EVERYONE ELSE RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS FEELINGS: The abuser says, "You make me angry" instead of, "I am angry" or, "You're hurting me by not doing what I tell you." Less obvious is the claim: "You make me happy."
8. HYPERSENSITIVITY: Is easily insulted, claiming that his feelings are hurt when he is really mad. He'll rant about the injustice of things that are just part of life.
9. CRUELTY TO ANIMALS AND TO CHILDREN: Kills or punishes animals brutally. Also may expect children to do things that are far beyond their ability (whips a 3-year-old for wetting a diaper) or may tease them until they cry. Sixty-five percent of abusers who beat their partner will also abuse children.
10. "PLAYFUL" USE OF FORCE DURING SEX: Enjoys throwing you down or holding you down against your will during sex; says he finds the idea of rape exciting.
11. VERBAL ABUSE: Constantly criticizes you, or says blatantly cruel, hurtful things; degrades, curses, calls you ugly names. This may also involve sleep deprivation, waking you up with relentless verbal abuse.
12. RIGID SEX ROLES: Expects you to serve, obey and remain at home.
13. SUDDEN MOOD SWINGS: Switches from sweetly loving to explosively violent in a matter of minutes.
14. PAST BATTERING: Admits hitting women in the past, but says they made him do it or the situation brought it on.
15. THREATS OF VIOLENCE: Makes statements like, "I'll break your neck," or "I'll kill you," and then dismisses them with, "Everybody talks that way," or "I didn't really mean it." If he has come this far, it is time to get help, or get out!
ref:
http://www.cs.usm.maine.edu/~leonard/htm/leave.html
if they are not enough , visit the following:
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/five-reasons-men-leave-women-they-love/
http://sara.iupload.com/default.asp?item=180778
And after these, I am sure , you will go back to your lover :-)
All the best
Ramesh
The Human Search Engine
http://www.alluwanted.com
2006-10-11 06:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are a million reasons to leave a lover. You've grown apart, betrayal, you found someone new, you are bored, you are relocating,....
Me, I'm never gonna leave my lover. Happily ever after is happily ever after.
2006-10-11 06:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There must be 50 ways to leave your lover.
2006-10-11 06:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I myself am not leaving him but if i were it will probably be for something like, i think he's cheating or caught him cheating, no more love, just can't work it out no one wants to compromise. Or because he's not living up to MY standards.
2006-10-11 06:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by the real deal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its too difficult to have a lover, a girlfriend, a mistress, and a wife. At my age, I can manage three, but four is just too much...
2006-10-11 06:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not leaving. She has a roast in the oven. She is makin some potatoes and fried green tomatoes.
2006-10-11 06:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is attempted murder a good enough reason? How about taking a vow never to bathe again?
2006-10-11 06:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by krustykrabtrainee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a lying cheating, child snatching, wanker! Good enough for you? Well the last one was....
We'll see with the next one.
2006-10-11 06:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Hobnobs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋