my husband cant satisfy me.and he is big,10 inches.but is like he dont know what he is doing.sometimes i even have to stop him just to ask what is it that he is doing.pathetic isnt it.
2006-10-11 06:00:00 · 22 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah that is pathetic
2006-10-11 06:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always said that big guys aren't everything, because they got don't mean that they know what to do with it. But what u should do is have someone join maybe he will be more into it. Or try some different 4 play activities to get u stimulated before having sex so that it doesn't be as bad and have him grind rel slow on your clitoris while having sex. Hope that helps. Good luck.
2006-10-11 13:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by the real deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. It sounds like he just needs to learn some technique. Don't be afraid to coach him in what you like. And if that doesn't work there are always books and videos. Keep telling him not to be embarrassed and that you really want him, that's why you're doing this. I'm sure its a serious blow to his confidence so you'll have to build him up in other ways like telling him how attractive he is or how smart he is. No compliment would be too small.
2006-10-11 13:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pathetic. Maybe you should take control, ride him for awhile or tell him how to so it so then maybe you can be pleased to. I only had this problem with a little one. It was only about 3 1/2 inches. I had to tell him how to do it then I could be pleased!
2006-10-11 13:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him watch some how to videos. Watch them with him and try to have him imitate what thy are doing. Make it a game so you don;t hurt his feelings.
2006-10-11 13:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 inches????!!!! Good God! I'm sorry he's not satisfying you, that's not cool. Maybe it's TOO big? That's porn star material, there.
2006-10-11 13:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 inches? Ouch. That would be painful, NOT enjoyable.
2006-10-11 13:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty bad..to be packing and not know how to use it. all I can say is I'm sorry hun...sounds like ya need to come and see me sometime lol ;-)
2006-10-11 13:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up and talk over it. Tell him what you like and find your most comfortable zone.
2006-10-11 13:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Beano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guide him help him love n care tell him what u want it will work dont worry
2006-10-11 13:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by leo_with_elegance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the tool. He just needs to learn how to use it.
2006-10-11 13:05:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋