She likes it the same way all the time and thinks that doing it doggie style is "unpersonal" I want to spice it up some.. any suggestions on how to make her more open to change??
2006-10-11 05:55:21 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try doggie style while laying on your sides while you lay behind her your hands are free to hold her or touch her also you can still kiss her neck and shoulders this way. Also be understanding... let her know you want to try something and if she doesn't like it she can stop it any time and you won't get mad or anything. Make her feel comfortable and relaxed a woman won't want to do anything if shes not relaxed.... And over all make her feel sexy and desired..don't feel her up every chance you get but walk up when she is doing the dishes or something and put your arms around her when she relaxes into you then kiss the back of her neck..Make her think about sex this way and that night when you get her into bed she will be wanting you and more willing...
2006-10-11 06:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance her. Make her feel like a queen and maybe she'll want to do something extra nice for you. This isn't going to work if its a one time deal. If you're repeatedly good to her and make her feel special than eventually she'll give in. She's probably afraid that the reason you want to do it "doggie style" is because you don't find her attractive. Ask her if she wants you to do anything for her that she might not have wanted to ask you for, sexually.
2006-10-11 05:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try taking her somewhere else ( e.g. a hotel room ) a different enviroment may just be the answer to get her into her wild side. Around where I live theres a hotel that offers a Jungle room...so that might just be the trick, and when you do that dress up ( yes you ) dress up as something you know she likes ( police men, fire men, Mr. Clean ) and play role with her. She'll get into it. Another thing you can do its get her typsy...hey it work for me!! :-P luck sweetz
2006-10-11 06:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by I think of you I touch Myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't... and if you try to hard you'll probably just end up pissing her off. If she's not willing than that's it. I'd say during sex turn her leg or something over or body, whatever and go from there, but that would probably cause some huge issues. Tell her your getting bored and that you want the sex life to mean more to her, and that you want to experiment. It's not fair to you to not enjoy yourself when she most likely is enjoying herself more.
2006-10-11 05:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't into and you force the issue it will mean trouble for your marriage. Just consider yourself lucky that you still get some after the I Do's.
On the other hand introduce some food into your sex life a little. Chocolate syrup goes very nice with sex.
2006-10-11 05:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a video together during foreplay so she can see that it's normal to try different positions. Dont' get a corny porn but try the couples video , maybe get her some toys, lube, lotions etc...
Usually if you just try it and don't ask women are much more open to it then talking about it.
2006-10-11 05:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about an ultimatum. If she doesn't then... Usually close minded people need a kick in the backside to get them started. Sometimes they end up enjoying the change even more.
2006-10-11 06:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if there's anything you want to do that she would be willing to at least try?
Let her know that if she's willing to try something new if she's feels uncomfortable or if she finds it distasteful you will stop.
Maybe she has some unresolved sex issues that a few counseling session would help.
2006-10-11 06:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making the suggestions (very romatically) during sex and see if she handles it better. Or while having sex, try doing some different things. If if feels good, I dare say she isn't going to make you stop!!!!
2006-10-11 05:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she a big girl.if so kiss her all over that helps out! some big girls are not out to try new things. Do NOT do feet. Kiss her legs and the hands and up the arms ( do not talk at all)She will try it and like it . start it in the shower if you can
2006-10-11 06:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋