He worls full time, and is a full time student, how can i help him to relax when i know he is feeling stressed or has had a bad day?
2006-10-11 05:49:22 · 34 answers · asked by photofemale810 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is not a sexual question, he gets enough blowjobs, and if he is stressed out, he is not interested in sex. SO stop with the BJ answers
2006-10-11 05:55:20 · update #1
My husband is also working and going to school and we live 2 hrs apart, its not easy you feel as if you can't do anything and you feel guilty when you have had a stressfull day because what he is going through is so overwhelming...Just ask how his day went and then listen...give him quiet time to do his homework and relax... a massage...maybe cook a nice meal (this is how mom would help...) let him know that you think what he does is amazing when people aren't appreciated they tend to get burnt out quicker...
2006-10-11 05:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he gets in, give him a nice greeting, after which give him a little space to relax. That way he can decompress from his stressful day, give him about an hour to an hour and a half. If you want, order some take out, or make a meal for the both of you...if you are just as busya person as he is, then by all means order take out; of course order something you both like. While you two are eating then ask him how his day went. let him talk, and if he vents let him vent on his day, at first just listen. Then after you get the jist... be his biggest supporter of his vision. Tell him how proud you are of his accomplishments, and how great you think he is and why you think once he's finished with his goals then he will see it was all worth it. You have to become his positive image or muse. He will appreciate you all the more for being there for him.
2006-10-11 06:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he doesn't have to worry about anything other than work and school. Keep the house clean and food in his stomach and try your hardest to keep the sex alive. Also, if you can think of some fun relaxing things to do when he's not working or at school like hiking or a picnic.
2006-10-11 05:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know him better than anyone on this board, so what does your heart tell you? If you want suggestions, try taking up the slack in some of the things he normally does. If he balances the checkbook for your family, take that over for a while. If he's always the one to take out the trash, you try taking it out instead. Men thrive on respect, too, so if you tell him you really admire and respect him and his desire to get a higher education, that just might give him the boost he needs to get through.
2006-10-11 05:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by mommyofmegaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried one night when he comes home have a nice dinner cooked. glass of wine then take him to the bedroom and give him a good massage til you see him sink in the mattress. Tomorrow when he gets up his day will have the same stress but i bet he will have this huge smile on his face remembering how much you love him.
2006-10-11 05:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do is to keep asking him what you could do. Try to let him relax in a way that makes him the happiest. The best thing for the both of you would be to find something you could do together ie. golf,running,walks etc.
2006-10-11 06:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by afw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quaaludes
2006-10-11 05:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by whoamihere32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation a few months ago and can totally relate to it.
You ought to give him moral support and when he comes home a warm and affectionate welcome is always good. Less nagging and fighting certainly helps and don't forget if you can do little things like mailing the bills etc. it helps.
2006-10-11 06:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by rizard2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fill up the tub, lite the candles put on romantic music.Bath him in something sexy. Then towel dry him. Walk him to the bedroom,give him a massage,feel him up. Suck him,lick him then ride him. Works for me.
2006-10-11 05:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What works for my man..... run him a hot bubble bath, once he is out tell him to lie down and give him a back massage with lavender cream... Works wonders he will wake up a new man!!
2006-10-11 05:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by da gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋