There's one girl called XYZ and I love her frm past 1 yrs.Well she has a Bf and tht was nt a prblm 2 me.But then she wanted our frndshp to broken cuz her Bf tld so.She was lke " I am sorry I need to break the frndshp as I am getting to close 2 u ". This was lke 2 months ago, I still feel the pain.But now I think I had enuf, I am really in love with her. I want her back in my may be nt as GF but as a true frnd. We ppl hve stpd talkin/chattin frm 2 months.I wanna get back to her, I wanna be with her, I wanna be as a frnd back 2 her. Plz tell me how 2 do the same. I am really shy and very SHY when i say that. But Plz I am truely in love with her. She 2 has tld that I took a very good care of her. Being a guy my frndz tease me when I at times cry whn I remember her, But Only I knw how much I am sad abt the whle issue.Plz help me I need to a frnd of hers.I am jst shattered frm 2 months. I've tried 2 frgt her , but all in veins.Plz do sumthin guys , mke her feel that I still love her. :'(
2006-10-11 05:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by Mehraba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey ! u r so cool guy! it is very hard to find a friend like u. Unfortunately, i dont have a friend or guy, even my hubby does not cry for me. So why dont u try to make a new girl friend whom u can care, share ur feelings. She is now his girlfriend and they might have future together. U try to build ur future rather than crying for this girl. When she do conatact u just be a friend. Good luck
2006-10-11 06:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by kiran123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, looks like you need a reality check You do want her as more than a friend and you can't even admit that to yourself. Kudo's that you not afraid to show you're sensitive but do be honest to yourself for starters.
Also, do you really want a girl who isn't strong enough to stand up for herself? C'mon no girl worth all the time you've spent on her lets off a friendship just because her boyfriend said so. Its not advisable to pine over someone for too long cause if eventually you do get to be with that person, you would end up disappointed cause they don't measure up to the ideal that you created in their absence.
Don't worry you will get over her, the sooner the better though.
2006-10-11 21:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by livs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really sorry for, it must be so hard when u love someone you cant be with. Maybe in time she will realise how good a friend you were to her, maybe the relationship with her boyfriend will not last. Why dont you write her a letter saying how u feel. Tell her that her friendship meant so much to you and that you want to be there for her as a true friend. Then just wait and see what happens.... Good luck
2006-10-11 12:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by YOLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it must be real hard for you. But let me ask you, why are you so keen to break your heart yourself. You seem to be a very sensitive kind of a guy. What use is love that will never be reciprocated. That girl knows that you have a soft spot for her in your heart, but she still chose to break friendship with you because her boyfriend must've definitely known that you like her. That clearly shows that she has no feelings for you at present but she definitely sees you as a standby. Please do not let others use you to achieve their ends. You need time to recover thats it. It might take some time for you but you will get over her.
Move on man, You'll find someone special who will love, respect and acknowledge your feelings.
2006-10-11 06:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by MintyMint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend i really feel u love this girl.the fact that u started missing her after she has stopped talking to u proves tht ur life is empty without her.
if u really love her u have to take the initiative and talk to her straight.ur shyness can cost u a good friend or a lover.tell her bravely that u love her and ur life is nothing without her presence.maybe ur shy thinking of the outcome that she might reject u.
but that should not happen since she said u take good care of her which means she likes u.
be brave talk to her tell everything u feel about her.
remember true love always wins although sometimes it takes time.
2006-10-11 07:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Survive_each_Session 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what....just wait and watch..her relation with that guy will not last forever.. this i tell u b'coz if that guy asks her to leave a friend of her..then he's getting too possesive for her.and he'll definitely ditch her someday..as he loves only her..but not her happiness. he wants her and not her happiness if u think i'm right...then i think u should talk to her abt this..and use ye mat sochne dena kii tum use badhka rahe ho..tell her that u r trying to be a good friend of her. if she doesn't believe u then..tell her that tum wohi hi kar rahe the jo ek acchhe dost ko karna chaahiye...and then tell her that u will always there for her...and she'll never be alone..and tell her that u wish kii tum galat aur woh sahi nikle...wish her luck....and one more thing can i ask u???can we chat????my id is coolest_rashi2002@yahoo.com....plz delete this answer...
2006-10-11 06:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear i can understand u.coz me too have passed thru some wat a similiar conditon.
u lov her as ur good friend ok..u know that she is in lov with another one... u know wen one is in lov , he or she cannot think with free mind of any others feelings. so she wont b able to understand u.so if u did some thing now to catch her love, she will feel it as an inult or an attack over her freedom of living. the boy too will feel the same.
so from my own experiance i say, wait ....just wait.one day she will know your love.moreover u are bound to let her free, if u really love her.
i repeat if u really love her.
dont worry abt this yaar. u will have a day
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2016-10-02 04:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy u r avery fine gentleman ...it is good to have a good one like u as a friend who cries for another friend ...now do not cry ...k ..if u want something u have to let go something ...see stand before a mirror and talk for hours u will .. shed down your shy...k friend chat withme if u want..jjgeorge_12@yahoo.co.in
all the best
2006-10-11 08:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you say you love her but you really dont
you might be in love with her thats true
forget about her, she s got a bf, why don t you respect that
find someone else
2006-10-11 08:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by elenitsa!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋