Anybody ever leave their spouse for another and then realize they had made a mistake? What changed your mind? Did you try again with your ex? What was their reaction? Any regrets?
2006-10-11 05:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hang on guys - I am the spouse who got cheated on and left. I did not have an affair!
2006-10-11 05:56:27 · update #1
Yeah I cheated and my ex husband cheated first but I stayed with my lover and my ex moved out so it was fun at first but then My Lolo sucked he is so the opposite of my husband and so immature I don't know what I was thinking, but 2 years with Lolo and with out my husband and I miss my husband. It's not the same. It's all about sex with Lolo and I don't mind but with my husband it was sex, it was companionship, it was much much more. I'm thinking of going back but I still don't trust him. Yes I totally regret it. One jerk to another jerk, your right the grass isn't much greener at all just more crap on the lawn.
2006-10-11 06:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sissy Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by longacre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when my husband left he left for another woman. And he came begging for me back. The girl I think he was with had a body of a goddess but a face from Hell and an immature attitude as well. A good heart almost always triumphs over a ***** whore. But sometimes the man is too blinded by the chlamydia to see the light.
2006-10-11 06:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/nxDQV
She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-19 12:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband cheated on me and was constantly looking for someone else (I didn't know) for the entire 18 years of our marriage. I eventually left him and found a perfectly wonderful man, but NOW my ex wants me to come back. He talks (and cries) about how much he loves me and needs me and will be good to me bla bla bla. He doesn't want to be single now and is finding out that he won't be able to do better, women are not falling all over him and that I was a pretty damned good wife and now will be for my new man.
2006-10-11 06:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grass is Grass, Color is just an illusion.
If you are not happy with your wife, why stick around? If you do leave her for another woman and the other woman is just as bad as your wife. . . . leave her too. It's all about being happy. Why go through life miserable? Besides, if you are willing to leave your wife for another woman, or if you are willing to cheat on your wife, then you don't really love her anyway. Go ahead and get it over with. It is better to be alone, than to be with someone you don't love.
2006-10-11 05:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/MFiNQ
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-24 02:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what makes you happy, if you werent happy in the beginning then find a completly different person! There are millions of people ya know!
2006-10-11 05:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥RN♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good for you, now you can get on with your life without the spouse
2006-10-11 05:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen it happen before
to friends and even to part of my family!
sometimes it works out but most of the time it doesn't, but thats just in my case
so hope it works out
2006-10-11 05:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by American Eagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋