uhmm.. see.. there's this girl i reallly like.. but i feel that she doesn't like me.. and i don't want to be close to her because i feel that i'm just forcing her to like me.. but still, i really, really like her.. help..:(
2006-10-11 05:41:17 · 17 answers · asked by ninja 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i don't know what to say to her..
2006-10-11 05:48:08 · update #1
I feel the same way about this guy, and I know that the worst thing to do is to ignore the person you have a crush on in a sad attempt to hide it. (I did this and now he hates me.) Just take a deep breath and talk to her about something non-crush related. What does she like? Is it something that you can talk about honestly? Just be natural. If you find yourself tongue-tied, just say hi, walk away, breathe, and try again when you feel coherent. Hopefully, you will be able to find something to talk about with her. Unless you just like her for her looks or something. (I hope not.) Try a conversation that both of you feel comfortable about. Just be nice to her for a while. I'm sure she doesnt hate you. It is not forcing her to like you if you're being sincere and honest with her. As long as you dont lie or brag, it's fine. Just act with her kinda like you act w/ ur other friends and dont be a jerk: girls HATE that. When you two feel comfortable w/ each other, casually ask her out (to a fast food restaurant, to the park, anything casual and NOT fancy). If she says no, then you'll just have to be her friend. I doubt she'll be mad if you ask her though. It's flattering to have someone ask you out. If she says no merely because she's busy or something, wait a long while b4 asking again or ask her when she'd actually be available. But careful...you dont want to pressure her. If she says yes, yay! Go on the casual date. If things go well and you want to pursue the relationship, wait for the right moment and ask her out on a date date. (Like, go watch a movie or something.) Hopefully, she'll say yes. Good luck!
2006-10-11 18:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by fliptastic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you SHOULD BE close to her. That's not forcing her to like you, that's just letting her know that you like her a lot. Once she feels your feelings, she would probably start to think of you oftener and want to know more about you and finally have the same feelings for you :) But first of all, don't hide your feelings too deep inside.
2006-10-11 13:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if you feel that you are ready tell her what your feelings for her are. what do you have to lose? if you think it's too soon then just try to be her friend but don't take along time because then she's just going to see you like another buddy. try to give her some hints and see how she reacts. go for it if it doesn't work out then you'll get over her and you'll find someone that's right for you. good luck
2006-10-11 12:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by bluemoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should just ask her to hang out sumtime and like yeah have her to get to know you a lot better impretty sure that she will like you then. if yall already hang out. just talk toher and tell her how you feel but done be too upfront and yeah good luck
2006-10-11 12:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jerica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime I was near the girl I like, I was like a duck and started to mock her. These emotions control us, lol/
2006-10-11 12:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Oh Dee! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask around if she likes u but if that doesnt work then just talk to her on the phone or ,email ,text, theres lots of communication ways around.im sure if she doesnt have a bf (boy friend) then u can surely hang around her.
2006-10-11 12:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by soidhfioshfidhfid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love to talk !! Find out something she likes to talk to her about. You never know till you try :)
2006-10-11 12:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by karebear0603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray and talk to god about htis girl you like ask god what you hope to get out of all this
write her a letter about how u feel about her
2006-10-11 12:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Faraasa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel in a conversation. It may feel awkward but do it.
2006-10-11 13:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by E Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her if she no u can still be friend if she was your real friend to begin with
2006-10-11 12:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Loving Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋