2006-10-11 05:40:29 · 31 answers · asked by jules 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It would help to know more about the circumstances of the two miscarriages, so I will keep the advice simple.
Take it easy and rest!
2006-10-11 05:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can actually do is not stress about it. I have two miscarriages that had to have a d&c. They sucked really bad. But I am now pregnant with a BOY. I am 24 weeks. It is possible. But don't stress about it. Miscarrages are gods way of taking out the babys that would not have a happy life in the world. Good luck and relax.
2006-10-11 05:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each pregnancy is different. you didn't say how far along you were when you lost he last 2 or if you were given any reason for the miscarriage,
most of the time there is nothing you can do to prevent it, it's just the bodies response to the fetus, have you and the father been tested for the r factor?
don't lose hope even if you should lose this one, my cousin lost 4 boy before she finally carried her daughter to full term.
i lost two then one between each of my three boys, the lost three more after that. there is always hope. some women require help to maintain a pregnancy, only your Dr can answer that question for you.
2006-10-11 05:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by connie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to think if it is going to happen it will happen. Your body only miscarries if there is something drastically wrong with the baby.
There are some general tips to lower the risk. Stop smoking and drinking alcohol. Cut right back on caffine. Don't eat peanuts, salami, unpasturised cheeses (Brie & Stilton too) and shellfish. Make sure any meat food are well cooked too. I am sure there are other foods to avoid (check pregnancy websites). I have found babyexpert.co.uk a good one.
Just take it easy, relax and let nature take its course.
I'll keep everything crossed for you.
2006-10-11 05:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by missluly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on your pregnancy! Do they know why you had 2 previous miscarriages? I would rest as much as possible and talk to you dr about anything that worries you. Best of luck to you!
2006-10-11 05:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear of your previous tragedies, drink lots of fluids (water) eat a well balanced diet and drink a glass of red wine or Guiness about once a month to boost your potassium and iron levels, but most of all follow your doctors advice
2006-10-11 05:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly a destined miscarriage cannot be prevented. i've had a couple myself and know how devastating they are. emotionally, physically and spiritually. just keep all your prenatal visits, take your vitamins, eat healthy and get some exercise, not alot...but enough. get fresh air. avoid sex if you can. i know they say its safe during pregnancy but your first trimester is so fragile and some orgasms can be pretty intense. i'm still in my first trimester with twins, so i'm not out of the clear yet either. just take it easy, dont stress and focus on a happy, healthy pregnancy. good luck to you sweetheart.
2006-10-11 05:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my heart goes out to you having suffered a miscarriage myself,dont know if i can give advice on not losing it but can give hope that it all works out in the end having just given birth to a healthy little girl,just try to relax and enjoy, i know its difficult as i didnt let myself until she was born,but what will be will be and hopefully youll be blessed with your own little one,all the best!
2006-10-12 08:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by lisa k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had 4 miscarriages and am now the proud mother of a 4 year old son. i was told that if its gonna happen, its gonna happen, theres nothing you can really do to stop it. however, i started taking pregaday tablets, STOPPED VITAMIN C, and basically, was celibate for the first month, and got my b/f to do all the heavy shopping etc.
good luck with it. hope it all goes well xXx
2006-10-11 05:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take things easy love. You could possibly have lost your last two babies because they were of a sex you cannot carry.My sister in law lost two boys and then had two perfectly healthy girls.
Good luck this time,it's a heartbreaking thing to happen,loosing a much wanted baby.I feel for you.
2006-10-13 02:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋