My wife recently got pregnant, but she is on the pill so I know it CAN'T be mine. She keeps saying it is, but that's obviously impossible and she won't face up to the evidence and admit her infidelity. There's no way I'm raising some other guy's kid. Again.
2006-10-11 05:26:21 · 23 answers · asked by Dialup, Avatar, Jones!™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-12 02:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by catfish_alomar_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife recently got pregnant, but she is was the pill it only means that the pill did not protect her from pregnancy. Most of the pills are 99% or less effective which means that 1 in a hundred will get pregnant when is on the pill. What it has to do with her being faithful or not. Do you think that the other guy has pill resistant sperm? Get wise.
2006-10-11 12:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can get pregnant while taking birth control ---- those things aren't full proof.
Stop arguing about the baby until after it's born, then have paternity test done.
Your wife doesn't need you fussing about whether the baby is yours or not... support her, take care of the her and leave the fussing out of the picture.... because you will feel like a jerk for getting on her case if the paternity test proves the baby is yours!
It sounds like you aren't ready to be a father but unfortunately those things happen .... adjust yourself to the situation, and try to understand she's got the real responsibilty of carrying the child for 9 months and going through all the bodily changes, it's not easy for her either and she needs your support and understanding.... try to be kind to each other as you both deal with the pregnancy....seek counselling it could help!
2006-10-11 12:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i hate to tell you its possible to get pregnant while on the pill, i myself did.no form of birth control is 100 percent effective. i don't know your situation or how long she was on the pill or if she took it everyday without missing it, but it is possible...so keep that in mind and give her the benefit of a doubt. you can always have a paternity test to put your mind at ease when the baby is born, but if she was on the pill and got pregnant how CAN'T it be yours but could be someone elses? i think you're just in shock right now, but don't let your suspicions get the better of you, you could be about to be a father and pushing the mother of your child away. you should go with her to one of her dr. appts and talk with the dr. and you'll find out it's very possible and happens to more people than you think.
2006-10-11 12:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by beckie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been an IDIOT?
if she is on the pill, she should not be able to conceive from ANYONE .... that said, you need to be educated about the pill
if her dosage is too low, she CAN conceive in spite of the pill. many of the dosages are for period regulation ONLY, enough to make her periods regular but not high enough to prevent conception.
unless you are using condoms each and every time you have sex with her, she can still get pregnant BY YOU if her dosage is too low to prevent conception.
Stop acting like an idiot, apologize to her and hopefully she wont divorce you for your lack of faith and trust.
You owe her a BIG apology and probably jewelry for your ignorance ... rofl
2006-10-11 12:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because she is your wife, your should trust her when she says that the child is yours, unless you know for a fact that she is messing around. Try to talk you her about it and ask if maybe she forgot to take the pill or didn't take it with the intension of wanted a baby. Communication is key to any relationship.
2006-10-11 12:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your only reasn it can't be your is because she's on the pill I have news for you, I got pregnant on the pill with my husbands baby. We both know it's his. If you have other concerns get a DNA test and believe the results she can't deny infedelity then and you can't deny being the father. Good Luck.
2006-10-11 18:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Mommyof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and your Wei have not been having sex... that is the only way you can make claim that this is not your kid.... Pills are not 100%.... you have to wait to get a DNA test before you can start throwing accusations around.... Now what if this is your kid.... Look how much time you have wasted because you were being ignorant
2006-10-11 12:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGAIN!!!
What do you mean again?
I had a vasectomy so I know its very unlikely (BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE) that I can have another child, but before I would accuse my wife of cheating I would double check I was shooting blanks.
I think you may need a refresher on the "birds & the bees".
2006-10-11 12:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant, then the pill obviously didn't keep her from getting that way. How does that determine who is the father?
2006-10-11 12:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pills like any other contraceptive method are not 100% safe.
The only way you can avoid pregnancy is by abstaining from sex.
2006-10-11 12:36:47 · answer #11 · answered by 8s_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋