I am engaged to a surgeon who has four children ages 6-12. The bio mom and children live in KY and we live in IN. I moved in with him 10 months after dating him long distance from ATL. Since I moved in with him, it has been in my opinion selfish and/or post traumatic divorced man disorder. He has been seperated for 27 months and officially divorced for 13 months. Upon moving in he began to have reservations about our sex life and used the Bible has his reason why. Presently, we do not engage in intimate sexual activity. He also said that the only thing that kept his 13 marriage together was there sex life and he wants to after 10 months of dating and 4 months of engagement and presently do it right. Next, he does not want any of my female opinions on the pending house that we will be moving into. Sometimes I feel he does not consider my feelings at all even on non-monetary issues which he claims his ex wife financially abused him. Please advise.
2006-10-11 05:20:20 · 4 answers · asked by Clara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get her counselling
2006-10-11 05:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by chowdary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello friend in my opinion in a moment seems to me after a divorce to inicar another relation with another man, I believe that it is the moment if your you consider that this being egoistic with you you think about same you that is what you want. rhing in you, follows adelnate by same you you do not depend on a man neither by its money nor by sex valorate and believes in you I that you can receives a jalisco greeting from guadalajara. cuidate and happy.
2006-10-11 05:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBERLIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes cheating on you sorry but i dont know any man that would use a bible to get out of having sex except for preachers if it was their religion ! good luck :)
2006-10-11 05:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are not right..... move on !!!
2006-10-11 05:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋