When ya'll are constantly fighting about everything
2006-10-11 05:16:34 · 6 answers · asked by sexy love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
conversation....keep the communication lines open at all times
honesty....tell each other everything...no secrets no matter how big or little
trust...you have to totally trust each other
If all else fails...keep the sex exciting and get counseling!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-11 05:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to find some time together where you wont be interupted. Each with a note pad. Set the ground rules: No talking, No yelling, no leaving the room for a hour. On the note pad, make three columns. first column topics you fight about ( the three most important to you) second column how you feel about it and what you expected from each other. leave the third column blank for the other person response. When you have completed column one and two, exchange pads. when each have completed column 3. Give it back to each other. Remember you are communicating with someone you love, so be kind and loving in this process. sometime when we take the time to write our issues/feelings down we see them in a different light. May find out some of the things your fighting about really is not a problem. And its easier to listen to each other when everyone silent. Hope this helps.
2006-10-11 12:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Obsidian butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant solve minor problems without resorting to fights all the time, then it may be time to let the relationship go and move on. I use to have relationships with men that always resulted in mega fighting and even tho it took alot of effort on my part, I left them and was a much happier person for it. Good luck to you!
2006-10-11 12:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. To maintain a better relationship, there should be trust, committment, good sex, and enough interest to want to talk to one an another from time to time.
That's all. I've never seen that successfully happen. There's always one or two of the variables, but not all four.
2006-10-11 12:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get too comfortable with each other and both of you fail to appreciate one another like you first met.
Every time he did something for you, you say "thank you honey". no matter what he say. keep petting him in the back. He will change and both of you will be in a better place.
2006-10-11 12:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better communication. Many times the arguments feed themselves.
2006-10-11 12:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋