2006-10-11 05:01:27 · 32 answers · asked by HM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Crushes, I think it's normal... As long as that is as far as it goes! And as long as you still LOVE your signif-other!
2006-10-11 05:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by MoMmY AlOrA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very normal to have crushes when you are married. From talking with my husband and brother and other male friends, it seems that many men have these little mini-sex fantasies often during the day. But women seem to have a different kind. They seem to see someone who they might think about later; but this doesn't mean that they don't love their husband or that they will act on the crush. The question you may have in your own mind is that is this crush, without acting on it, cheating? I say no. Perhaps ideally, people would never notice anyone except their spouse. But, if you marry someone who appreciates your face, your body, your mannerism, and details about you...Wouldn't it make sense that you married a sensitive and observant person, who also might appreciate the beauty of others? And for you, if you appreciate the great things about your husband, if you met someone charming, funny, or handsome or intelligent as your husband might be; you would also appreciate these qualities when you noticed them in another.
2006-10-11 05:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is absoulutly normal just dont follow through with it sexually that is the crime not liking another person there is a ton of people in the world some nicer and sweeter than others just remember that you got married for a reason and you will be fine.
2006-10-11 05:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by iluvhammbone35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's very easy to develop a crush anytime.... everyone meets people along their life path that they are attracted to... but the big secret is...... respect the marriage and never act on an attraction/crush.
Over the years I've had dozens of crushes..... while I was maried and single.... The only ones I acted on have been since I was in single status....
2006-10-11 05:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you are alive and are human it is possible to have "crushes" or be attracted to people. When you are married, however, you have made a commitment to one person and while you can be attracted to others, you need to behave appropriately as a married person.
2006-10-11 05:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find another attractive is normal but a crush is pushing it
2006-10-11 05:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say a crush is normal, but attraction is. It is just human nature. Just because one is married, does not mean that you have permanent blinders on.
2006-10-11 05:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it happens. I have been through that, but when you fail to keep it in control is when trouble starts.
We are only human, and at some point in our marraiges we may find ourselves a little restless or lonely, and other people may be able to provide what we think is missing. However, as anyone in a healthy relationship knows, its your spouse you should be going to not someone else.
2006-10-11 05:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by reckonthis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal... As long as it's a "crush", and not an obsession.
2006-10-11 05:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Just as long as the 'crush' is not acted upon.
2006-10-11 05:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by wallcritter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋