I have had similar sexual thoughts since i was a teenager and I believe i am breaking my urge and habit of masterbating whenever i am alone and when my thoughts are on these images; i believe i am really over obssessed perverted with these images and thoughts. I do not want to masterbate as i believe it is an insult to my girlfriend. These images are almost always in my mind.
How can I train myself not to think of them?
2006-10-11 05:00:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
attach some electrodes to your penis and then tie them into you brain some how, (you have to figure that one out or you can just do it manually) but every time you have a thought shock your penis and eventually you will be fine
2006-10-11 06:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by ninja cat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 45 years of age, I cant remember when I masterbated the first time, but I do remember that I liked masterbation a lot and wanted to masterbate at least once but sometimes several times a day. I still focused on other stuff, I guess, I really never put that much thought into it, I didnt waste time or thoughts to focus on masterbating most of the time when I was out in the world doing other stuff, but when I was masterbating I damn sure wasnt thinking about my studies. It dont take all that long to masterbate and you can only masterbate so many times in a row untill you develop blisters or your mom walkes in so that leaves plenty of time for all that other stuff... The best way to knock sexual thoughts outta your brain, at least temporarily is to hang posters of Rosie O'Donell in your favorite masterbating places. The effect lasts at least 3 times longer if you have a nude poster of her. It works for males and females alike. But beware, it could do permanant damage and some day you might want to have kids, whereas masterbation doesnt hurt anything if you do not have a masterbating marathon everyday or if do you remember to lubricate well. You are too young to watch porn, you are supposed to pust the "DONT ENTER" button on the websites.. You shouldn't lie, I hope you prayed to god to forgive you for lying to those poor webmasters who could get in trouble for little kids looking at thier porn. You should immediatly go to all the porn sites you lied to and apologize to them. Dont worry about masterbating, just dont masterbate in public or try to masterbate anyone else without thier permission.. What you should worry about is growing up with a complex because your parents pushed thier unreasonable religious beliefs onto you and that you should try to live a life which is not possible to live because the seven deadly sins are things that normal people including your mom and dad do everyday... I say masterbate away...
2016-03-18 07:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural, some men are more sexual than others...don't worry about it. you are young and should enjoy it. Do masturbate...it won;t hurt your woman as a matter of fact you can go longer with sex if you masturbate..lucky woman...you could have sex for hrs dude! but if u get sexual thoughts just have to masturbates...it's ok. your woman should understand it.
2006-10-11 06:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What images are you thinking of?!
If you’re dreaming them, evidently you just are craving those hard situations.
Thus, why don’t you just try to perform them together your g/f?!
I believe sex should be a free and open thing and there must be no secrets with our lover or partner.
Nothing is bad or naughty in the sex!
You are lucky to have (already) a g/f, so we both should set free your sexuality with no limit, deprivation or shame.
A good relation should require a satisfactory sexual agreement too!
In your case, the problem aren’t your sexual dreams but just the reason why you’re getting them and why you aren’t then able to concretise (fulfil) them!
2006-10-11 05:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah! Insult to your girlfriend... Honey... Its completely natural to masturbate... SHE DOES IT TOO< YOU PROBABLY JUST DONT KNOW ABOUT IT! But I can Guarantee you she does! Nothing is wrong with it. Sounds to me like you are a very visual person, which also eludes passion. So if you are so passionate why dont you apply this passion towards something else productive such as art, or reading. You could paint something beautiful when you have such a visual mind. Go for it, and good luck!
2006-10-11 05:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you have nothing to do except sitting here and there to think about it. Get more exercise and keep you busy for a while . You will see your life has alot of thing to worry and need to be resolved. Not optimistic at all time.
2006-10-11 05:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by tellmetruth 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age...WHY are you thinking such archaic thoughts??! Masturbation is totally normal and healthy. It releases sexual urges that can't be expressed elsewhere (due to time, place, etc.).
Only the Church says that masturbation is "wrong" and look how many of THOSE guys are screwed up...hitting on young boys and even molesting them! If they masturbated, maybe they wouldn't feel the urge to ruin the lives of young boys!!!
Man...WHAT religion were you raised in??!
Also, most girls and women understand that masturbation is NOT an "insult" to them (they do it too, with increasing frequency).
No offense, buddy, but it's like you crawled out of a cave during the Middle ages and wound up here! Times have changed & people recognize that sexual urges are healthy, even if they're not channeled into intercourse...that's what masturbation is for!
PLEASE...do yourself a favor and get some therapeutic help! (not from the priests, tho'!). You are TOTALLY normal and healthy, except for your whacked belief that you must repress your sexual urges! WHO told you that, anyway???!
Let your fantasies go wild...are they hurting anyone? Fantasize all you want and if you stay a virgin 'til your wedding night (NOT something I recommend, but to each his own)...then you'll have one heck of a time...I hope...).
2006-10-11 05:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think about Rosie O'Donell when ya are ready to jack it.. That will do the trick..
You can get your girlfriend to jack it for you and some other time when she aint there, just sit on your hand untill it falls asleep and jack it with that hand and pretend it is her.. that way you really aint cheating if you are fantasizing about her...
2014-01-03 15:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Twister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either master your thoughts, or you allow yourself to masturbate which is a perfectly normal thing to do and in no way an insult to your girlfriend. It is also normal to fantasize with or without your girlfriend. Maybe if you explain them to her she can help you act them out.
Hopefully these aren't bad thoughts like sex with children, in which case you should seek counseling to help you deal with them.
2006-10-11 05:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't, they will always be with you. Though if you just don't make fuss about it in your head, they won't be as frequent. Masterbation is healthy but maybe you can share that with your girlfriend, and do it together....good luck... ;)
2006-10-11 05:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by djjoecruz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋