my bf is jealous of my ex..i still talk to my ex becasue he was friend since way before i got with my bf now?

Question

he's my BF.
and my bf hates him, what do i do? :S

Answer 1

explain to your bf that your ex has always been your friend and that you're not together because you're better off as friends. if he can't understand that you're with him, your boyfriend, and not with your ex, maybe he's just got some jealousy issues. that's ok. i've got some jealousy issues myself but make it crystal clear to your honey that nothing is going on between you and your ex, and as long as he's shown that HE is the object of your affections and not your ex, he should get over it, quickly! just reassure the boy! ;) good luck!

Answer 2

Either have dinner with all three of you, so ur current BF and get to know your ex to see that theres nothing going on.....if that doesnt work then you need to choose between the two because you obvious cannot continue like this.

Answer 3

What you need to do is let that ex go, he is ruining your relationship and so are you, what you have to talk about with your ex you can explain and talk to your new man about it. You got to realize you are hurting him and you are putting yourself in a situation where after awhile he may no longer continue to accept what you are doing, so why you are ahead of yourself, you need to let him go, that is your past, let the past be your past and look forward to the future with you current boyfriend. Work things out with your man, if he aint doing what he needs to do regards to your relationship, talk to him, tell how how you feel and the reason why your talking to your ex if he is the problem. But I will tell you this you are about to destroy your relationship with your current boyfriend over a past flame, Now ask yourself why are you doing this to your man when you know he doesn't accept this fact that you are communicating with a past flame of yours. Doing this aint worth losing a good man that loves and cares for you. TRUST IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN AN RELATIONSHIP.

Answer 4

That's a tough spot to be in!!! But listen if your bf now has trust in you than it shouldn't matter who you talk to! Trust and honesty is the foundation of a solid relationship! Talk to ur guy, let him know that if there is no trust then how can you even consider moving forward??? Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

You need to reassure your bf that your ex is your ex for a reason and try to explain to him that friendship is all that exists between you and him.
Avoid talking to your ex whil your bf is present and try not to bring him up in conversation.

Answer 6

You have to look at how you would feel if he was talking to an ex. You are with someone now you have to give up a few things. You need to only confide in your new man not your old one. I know its going to suck but....you gotta let him go.

Answer 7

Just tell your boyfriend that you wouldnt do anything with your ex. My bf is jealous of a few of my exs so i made him a promise that i wouldnt do anything with any of them, (even if i hadnt made the promise, i wouldnt anyway)

Answer 8

i'm all for friendships and stuff, but why would you want to make your bf uncomfortable -- your life is with him now -- not your ex and unless you guys have kids together -- move on. it's not healthy and understandly will not sit well with him. i think you're selfish and one-sided...how about thinking about him?

Answer 9

try to talk to him behind your bf back

Answer 10

it is hard to let some x's go..........but if your BF does not like it.let x go, it time to move on,,,,,,,,x is PAST