there is this guy that i like he asked me out and i said yes - thing is it had been 2 weeks and we still didnt go on our 1st date yet...
so a couple of weeks after that i hear that another girl likes him and he likes the girl as well.
my friend heard that and got really angry and asked him if it was true he said he did like the other girl but he is trying 2 decide if he wants me or her..but he might choose me
but im not sure if i want him beacuse i dont wanna go out wit him if he always thinks in the back of his mind what if i choose the other one
WHAT DO I DO HELP ME PLEASE?
2006-10-11 04:55:29 · 17 answers · asked by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Stay friends with him. No one gets hurt if you aren't "going out" with him. And besides, you're way too cool to wait around for some GUY to figure out if you likes you or not. You're better than that! Stay friends with him, and move on! A great guy will come for you sooner or later.
2006-10-11 04:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My most current break up was because of situation like this. My boyfriend and I had been together since June, but we have been off and on since my freshman year in high school (I'm a junior now, he's a senior). He says that with every girl he dates he can't get me out of his mind, and always wants to be with me. Last week I was noticing that him and another girl were really flirty and comfortable with each other. I asked him about it and he said that he did like her, but didn't want to lose me. He asked me if it was alright if we "took a break" for him to see where things were going with this other girl. I said fine except he better not be expecting me back ever again.
I think you should lose this guy. If a guy can't make up his mind to choose just one girl he likes, then he's just asking for more than he needs. Relationships are supposed to be with two people, not to be passed around between a group of three, because eventually one girl (or guy in other situations) is going to end up with less than they deserve.
2006-10-11 14:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by banana_monster_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this guy he doesn't tend to bring any good in your direction if he asked you out thn the two of you should have gone out already. If he has asked out another girl let him go bcuz he may get the feeling tht he can have the both of you. If he cant decide now he will not be able to decide later ditch him with the quickness and move on there is someone else out there to make you feel special and will not have to take another person out to decide who he likes the most.
2006-10-11 12:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by shaunda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is going back and forth to try to decide what girl to take on a first date, he is not worth your time. Find a guy that knows he likes you - if you wait around for this one, he may only hurt your feelings by picking you, then backing out for the other girl...
2006-10-11 13:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the word "FLAKY"? This scenario is the perfect definition.
My recommendation is to NOT go out with him. First of all, he didn't set a time for your date when he asked you. He's just testing the water with you to build his ego...and probably with this other girl as well. He MAY choose you? What's to choose? He asked you....not the other way around. Drop this guy like a hot potato, Sweetie. It's not worth the heartache.
2006-10-11 12:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Squash Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to be beginning of a great life. You will have many boy friends. When I was in school "going out" meant we were boy friend and girl Friend. We never really went out on dates. I am 24 now, and have a great hubby. I "went out" with many guys, I was a cheer leader, and had lots of friends. Let him pick, then you will find another guy if he does not choose you. And ya know what, if he does not choose you then he was not worth your time then. You seem very smart. good luck
2006-10-11 12:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not in to the waiting game ethier he likes you or he dont your not going to let him choose between two girls and make the choice for him and move on. Who wants a guy that likes you but yet another girl.
2006-10-11 12:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. You don't want to be anyone's second choice, and hanging around waiting on him to "make a choice" will make you seem desparate. Plus, lots of guys want to have their cake and eat it too. He's likely to take advantage of both of you if you let him. Move on- there's too many fine men in the world to obsess over some loser who can't make up his mind.
2006-10-11 12:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by adrianne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off how old are u? sounds like a teenager. nothing wrong with that. as or ur question girl dump him . theres way to many heros out there to get stuck with a zero....
2006-10-11 11:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u said it yourself...y would u want to be with him if there is a slight chance that he could be thinking about the other girl...i know...trust me...it happened to me and the relationship didnt work because i felt that he compared me to her at times!!! my advice... you can find someone who will put all his attention on u and not someone else
2006-10-11 13:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋