my wife makes fun of me all the time ( a lot lately) because i go play bunko with old ladies sometimes. and because i tell kids (mainly her neices and nephews ) to pull my finger and i get tired after about 20 minutes of sex. but what the big deal???im pushin 40 here.
2006-10-11 04:54:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She makes fun of you because you make it easy.
2006-10-11 04:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately, it is human nature. I think people do it because it makes them feel superior if they can try to make someone else look ridiculous. Don't do it back it will only make you look bad. You are the better person. What you have described is not bad at all! Yay, Bunko!! Yay, you have a sense of humor! Yay, you give the sex an effort. Tell her to get on top and to stop making fun of you!
2006-10-11 05:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's mad at you and at herself. People get angry at things in others that they don't like in themselves, so try looking at it from that angle. You've stated a lot of things that you think she's annoyed about, but they're so random....it really sounds like she's just generally irritated with you, and that's something you're going to have to deal with together. The funny thing is, she'll probably be really more annoyed when you try to bring it up, since she'll want your marital problems to be all your fault! Gotta try tho!
2006-10-11 05:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the root of some one making fun some is low self esteem so if she put's you down and make you feel lower than her self she in returns feels better about her self so maybe there is a need there.
try helping her feel better about her self with praising her for a good job on something or telling her that she is still pretty to you.
i would buy the five love languages
and try this site
http://www.fivelovelanguages.com
hope this helps
2006-10-11 05:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your wife makes fun of you becasue she is scared that if she doesn't pend all of her time crackin on u. then you'll have time to creack on her. so maybe your just to much of something. or maybe shes just wanting you to change & shes comin about tellin you that. in the joking kind of way. maybe you & ur wife need to sit down and have a chat about the way you 2 have been acting. trust me it'll make things better. maybe she doesn't realize that makin fun of you is such a big deal to you. you have to take a stand for your self. & let people know when there knockin you down. but confront your wife about it. & it'll build you right back up =]]
2006-10-11 04:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE BECAUSE you're so sensitive about it. talk about her flabby azz or somethin..hit her where it hurts...(nothing toooo personal though.) you know where to draw the line. Tell her don't dish out what she can't take. As far as the sex...she should be helping you if ur....coming up short like that. Don't let her kno it gets to you...tell her she cumz too slow..lol Quit being so sensitive you're supposed to b the stronger species, act like it. thank u come again.
2006-10-11 05:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about it and let her know that you are not happy with thae way that she has been treating you. Tell her that you think the way she is acting is childish and if she has issues in the marriage she should talk about them with you not tease you about them. This way if something that you are doing is bothering her you can try and fix it in order for her to be happy in the marriage.
2006-10-11 04:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But what gets her most is the Dr. Seuss silk screened satin French Maid pajamas you wear to bed.
2006-10-11 04:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. Maybe you should explore some behaviors that will make you feel and act less old. You're only 30 something... not 80 and on life support.
Stop acting so old.
2006-10-11 04:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to chill out. Or start making fun of the things she does. Sometimes people need a good dose of their own medicine.
2006-10-11 04:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she doesnt like wht r doing she wants u to kinda work on yr weaknesses and perhaps she thinks that if she poks fun of u , youll probably get the message and do something abt it.
2006-10-11 04:57:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋