I've been with my husband for almost 16 years, married for only 8 years. I thought awhile back I needed something more...I found out all I needed was my husband! It's not at all what you're thinking it is. I almost lost the best thing that ever happened to me because at one time in my life I was thinking like you. BIG HUGE GINORMOUS (as my daughter would say!) MISTAKE!!!
Talk, get counseling, figure out what you're missing and fix it before it's too late! You will probably figure that the only thing you're unhappy with is yourself!
2006-10-11 05:00:09
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are in a marriage that is so boring that you are considering "testing the waters", as you would say. Then perhaps you shouldn't be married. I would think any person that wants what you've described really only wants to be single again. It's comfortable to stay married, but unfair to the both of you. I would rather be happy alone, then miserable married.
2006-10-11 11:58:10
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answered by KMAB 3
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You're not wrong, there are bored women out there. There will be a lot of people that are telling you that you are a bad person, at the same time there will be a bunch of women emailing you and chatting with you so eventually you will find what you are looking for...
2006-10-11 13:42:35
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answered by auzzimama 3
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I am married and bored myself. NOt that I want to cheat on my husband.If you're bored maybe you can find a way to spice your marriage up a bit. Take your wife out for a night on the town. do something fun. Go on a cruise or something simple if you don't have the money. It doesn't have to be expensive. Good luck!
2006-10-11 11:56:46
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answered by Anonymous
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If you're bored, maybe your wife is too. Wouldn't it be wierd if she posted an ad on YA just like you?
You should have date night, or dress up and recreate fantasies with each other, rather than trying to find the spark with someone else.
2006-10-11 12:39:16
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answered by Just a Girl 2
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Dude create a 360.
I have some great friends that love to talk.
2006-10-11 11:56:20
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answered by desayunogratis 3
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i am married and i like to chat with other married men and women to get there opions on relationship stuff and to just chat . you can im me
2006-10-11 11:55:24
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answered by ms01 4
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You need to ask yourself why you're bored and how to fix that within your own relationship - not go looking for things that will mess it up further.
2006-10-11 12:01:34
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answered by jwb674 3
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I'm married, same age as u, just to listen..email me.
2006-10-11 20:46:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Sorry..Not married and not interested
2006-10-11 11:57:07
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answered by wittlewabbit 6
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