i really really care about this guy. i know its wrong to be with someone like this but i can't leave him. sometimes i think i should get help for him, but i won't be able to see him for quite sometime.
i need some answers....
2006-10-11 04:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Meth will eventually take over his life. from your heart you need too answer this question. Would it really hurt more too not see him for a few months or even a year or would It hurt more too see him Die and be gone forever? That is not a hard question, I'm sure. If you think you can get him help then please DO IT before It's too late for him. I watched Meth destroy my friends marriage of 15 years, her husband went from always be a respectable worker that a lot of companies wanted, too being a man that nobody would hire today. And the sad part is..he doesn't even care. She finally left him after watching him go in and out of treatment for 2 yrs. There isn't a thing wrong with getting help for someone you love and standing by them, letting them know that you care, but if they get help, they have too want help, and until he's ready he won't get it. You need too offer too get help for him and when he refuses you need too let go and move on before he drags you down that road with him. No matter how much you love someone, there comes a time when you have too make a choice and sometimes those choices are really hard. But honey let me tell you ..when it comes down too It, he will probably choose the Meth over you.It's powerful and takes over peoples lives so please try the offer for help, and if it doesn't work, then get out of this relationship now!!
2006-10-11 05:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rose T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Meth is not a good thing. I know you care about this person but if they are on meth / drugs it's not healthy for you to be around. Meth is the hardest (they say) drug to overcome. You should talk to him and tell him your concerns or maybe a school councelor. Does his parents know. Oh, get him some help as the longer this goes on, the harder it will be for him in the long run!~
2006-10-11 05:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mom to Foster Children 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex was on meth and we had a child together he ended up in prison, not for drugs, but there is nothing you can do to stop someone they have to WANT it i know this from experience and meth is very addicting i would not even be with someone like that if he REALLY cared about you and he knew you wanted him to stop he would trust me i would just leave him and go on with your life it will never get better only downhill from here,
2006-10-11 04:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you care aabout him you will stop at nothing to find the right course of action.. you could firsr try intervention... that means involving other ppl tho... getting family together, sitting down and stepping up... laying it all out on the table and being tuff..... and that is NOT easy... you need first to go to a drug clinic, talk to a councler, get all the info and training or advice from them you can, and then getting down to business.. Meth is gonna kill him if you do not step in now.... so prepare urself, get help, and get busy... God bless
2006-10-11 04:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it means him getting better, don't you think in the long run you would be better off to give up seeing him for a while. He won't get better til he wants to get better. If you turn him in to the police he will probable be angry with you. Don't enable his behavior though by helping him with finances. Just a suggestion.
2006-10-11 04:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend did coke **I didnt know when I met him** and we wound up getting pregnant. He came home one night with it still under his nose, and I told him straight up, its me and the baby or your coke and adam (his 'friend' that gives it to him).
He gave up the coke after me not talking to him for two days (realizing I was serious and he was going to lose me and the baby). He still talked to Adam until one day when he finally caught on to what a POS he was.
And we are as happy as ever.
Good luck to you. Don't do the cops thing. Trust me that doesnt work. He will go to jail, you will regret it, he will hate you, the list goes on. All he will do there is meet more druggies.
2006-10-11 04:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the People who care dearly for Him. Have them all write letters on how it has affected their lives, and include what they will no longer do for Him, to enable Him, and hold an intervention.
Good Luck, and God Bless
2006-10-11 04:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by LightintheDarkness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince him to seek help. Jail will only worsen the problem...he needs recovery. It doesn't matter you won't see him for awhile...a few month is better than forever!
2006-10-11 04:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by whoanelly00 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please check this out:
http://www.addictionca.com/
there are many things you can do. My little brother died of a heroin overdose. Since then i have devoted my whole life to help teens. Depending on where you live, there are many rehab centers. Here is some information at my brothers site.
http://www.scottreiser.com
2006-10-11 04:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him help. is it worth it to not see him for a little while then to lose him on an over dose?
2006-10-11 04:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋