I just got home from work while driving by I saw her haveing sex with a bum off the street (Derek) now she's having a baby and Iam pretty sure it's not mine so she's not my wife no more but I still love her what should I do?
2006-10-11 04:39:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
unlucky she is a good ride though so no wonder your gutted
2006-10-11 04:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do the right thing. Act as though you are the father until the baby arrives. Help with medical bills,buying supplies and so forth. That way if the child is yours then you will have no guilt to feel. If the test shows that it isn't yours then you helped an unborn child that didn't ask to be brought into this world anyway. If it's yours, hire a good lawyer and get custody. If not then wish her the best and find someone worthy of your love that you would enjoy having a family with and wouldn't need to worry about the child being yours or not. If she likes fooling around(especially with a bum) then she is probably set in her ways and the next one could be your best friend if he'd have her.
2006-10-11 05:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by rose v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay? So you saw here cheating on you with your own eyes? How could you still feel that way? Im guessing she didnt love you as much as you thought to be cheating on you... AND CHEATING ON YOU WITH A BUM? Ek
Look you need to get out and start dating! Start talking with old friends again. Or making new ones. There are more women out there than you think, that wouldnt ever even dream of cheating on you. You need to get your head right. You just feel that way because you spent a lot of time one her, and you liked who she was... Not what she did. Move on man... Its for the best.
And if you do end up getting back with her... Get a DNA test on the baby.. And get her tested. But I wouldnt suggest that in the least.
Hope I could help!
2006-10-11 04:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move pass it..She isn't worth the heart ache.Find a new lady and have a great life.We all need to be able to have a happy life and by holding on to the past, we cannot acheive it.You deserve better and there are alot of women out there for you to find happiness.Good luck and don't dwell in the past.
2006-10-11 04:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not really sure about the baby part get a dna test done and if its not urs move on and forget her but if it is yours give it another go my friend good look hope all goes well for you
2006-10-11 04:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by fran d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with helping out a bum. Maybe she could just give them a couple bucks.
2006-10-11 04:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing like a new love to forget a old, cheating, lying one. Respect yourself and find someone that respects you too.
2006-10-11 05:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Obsidian butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. if this is real. EWWWWWW if she's sleeping with a bum. You should be happy your not married to her. Ditch her to the curb with her bum friend!
2006-10-11 04:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you just drove home, saw her having sex, she got pregnent and you divorced her all within the last few minutes?
2006-10-11 04:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
stick that video you made 'just for the two of you' on the internet and send her dad the link.
what follows should put an end to any problems you have gettin over her.
2006-10-11 04:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by rauls ghost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU SAW HER WHILE DRIVING BY??? VERY CURIOUS. PRETTY SURE AND FACT ARE TWO DIFFERENT ISSUES. HAVE A DNA WHEN BABY IS BORN, AND GO FROM THERE.
2006-10-11 04:44:40 · answer #11 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋