2006-10-11 04:37:54 · 13 answers · asked by sexy one 1 in Dining Out ➔ Fast Food
because he doesnt like you enough to pay for the whole thing. if a guy really likes you, he will pay for you at least the first few times you go out. after that it is only fair if you sometimes treat him, but he should still pay more often.
if a guy doesnt try to pay for you on the first date, then move on because he isnt worth a second date! (he should be trying to impress you!)
2006-10-11 04:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by olayak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I make chicks pay for their own dinner and drinks because then they do not feel obligated to do " the big nasty" as payment for a filet mignon and a garden salad. Seriously though, I date only smart women and I pay for everything because I have a pleasant evening in their company and I've got plenty of money. But I'm old school. I'm amused at girls that pick a guy up cause he doesn't have a car, pay for dinner and a movie cause he's got no bread, then jump into the sack with him for what reason I don't know. I've always been mildly surprised and very appreciative when a babe wants to sleep with me, and I ain't a bad lookin' guy...just the way I am...
2006-10-11 11:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why SHOULDN'T you pay your own way? I'm amazed that ALL the females who have answered this question say that, at least "the guy SHOULD offer to pay for everything" (note the word 'should') - that way you can at least refuse him.
What's this about 'SHOULD'? Who says? When was THAT law written?
What this proves is that although women want to be equal... when it comes to PAYING OUT they DON'T want equality! DOUBLE STANDARDS!
One of the prices of equality is that you females MUST pay for yourself. If you don't, you're either cheap, hypocritical, or too ignorant to take a stand on the issue.
NB. IF the man pays, there is STILL no obligation for the woman to do 'the big nasty', and anyone who even refers to this concept nowadays has a lot to learn. Any woman who would have sex with a man simply because he bought her a dinner must be a VERY cheap woman. As a man, I can't even comprehend having sex with someone for such a small thing. I used to have dinner at my grandma's house every week - I never thought she expected anything out of me for it! Where do females get these notions?!
Finally, as a reformed 'nice guy', buying flowers, chocolates and dinner for women never got me anywhere - and I now know that it never will. The woman is TESTING the man when she waits for him to pay for her as well: if he does, she thinks she knows for sure that he's a chump - and she'll treat you with contempt, taking you for everything you've got. Many of these women can be seen on Jenny Jones, Springer et al. - they call themselves 'playas' (players); 99.99999% of women are like this - only most of them don't come out and admit it.
So guys - be sure you THINK HARD before you pay for ANYTHING for a woman. A) It almost certainly won't earn you any respect, and B) Women still need to be taught what equality is.
2006-10-11 14:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if a guy is tak n me out then he is pay n. If he asked me out i would just think he is pay n any ways
2006-10-14 11:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by nicole_252006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a clue. I have never taken out a chick on date and expect her to pay her way. No way honey, that is not my thing. I treat women like royalty as they should be.
2006-10-11 13:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's a first date, it's called going dutch. No strings attached. He should at least offer so you can say no thanks, you've got it covered. That way there's no expectation of sex.
But...it is the most chivalrous thing to do for the man to pay if he invited you. I'd reverse it if you invited him.
2006-10-11 12:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, that's what you call a gigolo. Have more respect for yourself.Send him on down the road or you'll be paying for everything forever. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-11 11:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sue S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who nows!?
when it comes tot he 1st few dates, whoever did the inviting should do the paying.
but i think its nice to offer to go half and half or buy them coffee or something
and it not ok to ask the other person to pay if you did the inviting.
2006-10-12 15:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by msginayvette 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's either cheap or poor, or he wants to be just friends. If he didn't talk to you about this ahead of time and you have one particular idea of what your intensions are toward one another you may want to rethink your perspective and talk to him about it.
2006-10-11 13:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by ts 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He isn't sure the payoff will be to his liking?
2006-10-11 17:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by lollylou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋