He sits at across from me and gets calls the same hour of day from what sounds like a female. He does not realized I can hear his conversation because he sits next to the indoor heat/air conditioner....it cracks me up because he does not know that I can hear his conversations even when he trying to speak down low...
2006-10-11 04:22:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Minister? Church? Send a letter to the leadership there explaining your concerns, but not accusing him of anything yet.
2006-10-11 04:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a letter of concern to the deacons of your church and let them handle it. the man is a scum bag if he is a minister and he is cheating . Let me guess the wife is a mouse right? Does not say anything about anybody for fear of retaliation by church members and her husband. I once knew a minister's wife who could not buy even a bra and underpants for herself without his consent. It makes me sick that some ppl are so weak willed. Or just let it get out that what you suspect before you know it the congregation and the deacons will know all about it.
2006-10-11 04:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should do nothing -- simply because it's not your business -- although sad situation it is... however, if you're really compelled, you could tell him you know what's going on and encourage him to end it and let him know you'll be there as a friend -- but remind him what he's doing is a sin in God's eyes.... then the rest is actually up to God.
2006-10-11 04:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ducky S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything its not your business...you said this is a co-worker so its not a friend....dont cause a rift at work...the best thing to do here is keep your mouth closed about it...dont even talk with other co-workers about it..you dont want to later be accused of causing a hostile working environment...keep out of it...keep your mouth closed ..and sit back and listen to this cheating buzzard make a fool of himself because he may be getting over on his wife but he isnt fooling God
2006-10-11 04:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's what you do. Print out the 10 commandments and highlight the part where it says "Thou shalt not commit adultery" I believe it's #7, then when he is at break you tape it to his computer or phone. When he comes back to his desk he will have no idea who put it there but maybe he will think it's a sign from.....GOD!
2006-10-11 04:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by mslo25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, sounds fun ! I wish my co workers had shitt like that going on !
Oh dont get me wrong my co worker is a blast but that kind of stuff your hearing is cool ! Something new all the time !
2006-10-11 04:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by Freak Nasty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about it. I wouldn't go and tell everyone, but talk to him first and let him know that it is wrong. Maybe he will put an end to the affair. If you attend his church (or work at it) and he doesn't stop cheating I would go to the deacons (or your church's equivalent) and let them know about it.
2006-10-11 04:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If you're not friends with his wife, stay out of it. You'll just end up looking like the bad guy.
2006-10-11 04:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have a lot of spare time on your hands at work secondly just leave it if you interject it will get messy for you and you dont need that!
2006-10-11 04:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It's none of your business. It's not like he's a friend.
2006-10-11 04:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋