I think my boyfriend might be cheating on me, ... we have been together for a year and i love him and i know he loves me and there hasnt been like any evidence or anything, but lately i have just been having this feeling.... i could just be being paraniod but how can i find out for sure ( i told him i was feeling this way and it just turned into a huge fight) what do i do???
2006-10-11 04:19:37 · 11 answers · asked by bbevans2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you think hes cheating he probably is. A womans intuition if usually right on. Trust yourself because if you dont you cant trust him. Good Luck
2006-10-11 04:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by jenniebs4654 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as you at the moment. Trust your feelings but try not to over-react. Stand back from it and consider all possibilities. My boyfriend was staying out late, not coming home at all at the weekends and offering lamer excuses each time. When I read his diary out of desperation, he'd written about his new love and all they've done together. He denies it, but the pain is horrendous. Try to get as many facts as you can, and be objective. My relationship in teetering on the brink, well in fact, I think it's gone over the edge now. Good luck.
2006-10-11 11:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by NC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it .but if the feeling does not go away then definately start doing some checking . dont start a fight become a private investigator . Your own not anybody elses. You know start following him . I did and I found out alot more than I wanted to. I took pictures and got a whopper of a settlement . I even surprised my own attorney cause I did things his investigator never even thought of . He actually wanted to hire me but I turned him down it is a nasty business and it is dangerous.
2006-10-11 11:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you really cant do much of anything until you catch him inthe act. Dont be paranoid cause that will make him cheat or leave. There are signs.
1. smelling like perfume (not yours)
2. strange phone calls
3. not coming home on time
Girl cmon........I know you know all this.
2006-10-11 11:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sqrlll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has been acting differnet?? i mean there is alot of signs that guys give off but they dont know but us girls were to smart for them!!! if u asked him and he said no then just play it off and eventually he will mess up!!! but if u have that feeling then just tell him that u need time about say about 2 weeks and see how things work between ya 2!!! good luck
2006-10-11 11:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourselves a break. cool off for a time. if he misses you, you have a place in his heart. but if still feel he is cheating, find a place in your heart where you can place trust.
2006-10-11 11:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by spotpx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the most important thing in a relationship.. just tell him how you feel and see how he responds...
hope he`s not cheating..goodluck
2006-10-11 11:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by nanapu17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a year I would say its not worth it just leave before you waste to much time
2006-10-11 11:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by bungalo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think hes cheating, get rid of him, dont waste ur time.
2006-10-11 12:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by brit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question leads me to two possible conclusions...
one, your very insecure, and need to get some help...
two, your thinking of cheating on him, and are trying to justify it...
2006-10-11 11:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Nick S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋