2006-10-11 04:17:11 · 22 answers · asked by kingteka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
slowly and excite her much before you enter making sure she extra wet. Then you will slide right in
2006-10-11 04:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Luckys Charm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need medicines just plenty of unhurried foreplay and then she will be ready for you. Don't just get on top and push all the way in or it will hurt her and she won't enjoy it. Push slowly till you can feel the end of your penis pressing against her hyman, kiss her slowly and sensually to take her mind of what is stretching her and then take her cherry. Once through this piece of skin stay there, don't push any further for a while. Keep on kissing and caressing her especially around the boobs and shoulders and only when she is relaxed again slowly proceed. After a while she will be more pliable and able to take some more rigorous thrusting. Enjoy, but make sure she does too. It only happens once to a lady so make sure it's a good experience and not a painful one.
2006-10-11 04:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need medicine. There will only be suffering if you go at it to roughly or if she is not ready - mentally AND physically.
Make sure this is definitely what she wants and then spend a LONG time stroking and touching her, etc. Let her guide you to what she wants. And only start to enter her when she is very wet and is ready for it to happen.
The hymen is a very thin membrane of tissue and breaks easily. Many girls have already broken their hymen through horse-riding, gymnastics or using tampons, long before they start having sex, and probably without even knowing it. Any pain she feels will be momentary and hopefully you will be doing a good job of taking her mind off it. If it is more painful than this, stop RIGHT AWAY and get her relaxed again before you try anything else.
2006-10-11 04:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eveyrone already said it, KY lubricant, lots and lots and lots of foreplay, remember a woman get turned on by touch not thought, so you need to be patient and do not rush or you will make it an uncomfortable first time experience. You want her to always remember her first time and the man that she shared it with.
2006-10-11 04:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Solitary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of foreplay to get her relaxed and aroused. The more aroused she is, the more she should secrete natural lubricants to allow easier penetration. Failing that, you should use plenty of KY or similar.
if she is allowed to drink, a little alcohol will also help her relax - not too much though ... you wouldn't want her to pass out or throw up!
2006-10-11 04:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is more scared than anything, you need to make her relax , but if it real hurts her, do not do it on one night, every night you go in a little at a time you reach your goal. do not use anything medicine something like this should be special and natural
2006-10-11 05:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you make a habit of it then, entering girls and hurting them, or are you just a dreamer? try turning her on get her climbing the walls with excitement. she will be begging you rather than you begging her. love oils that are safe to use down there or KY, if i start hearing screams i know it`s happened lol
2006-10-11 06:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by shayney boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is 21, surely she has been to the gyno. Let her know it is uncomfortable at first, but no where near the horror stories I am assuming that she, or you, have heard. KY is a good suggestion.
2006-10-11 04:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Theres really only one way out of this,get her completely relaxed,my hurt first time after she has felt the bliss of not been a virgin thing should go OK luck
2006-10-11 04:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who told you there would be so much suffering ?
Iguess you don't know what you're doing if that's always been the case for you.
2006-10-11 04:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋